(Closed) Save the dates – mail before I see people or after?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: When should I send the STD's
    Before I go home : (9 votes)
    100 %
    After I get back : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    922 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I think the sooner you send them the better.  Then people can get it on the calendar.  They’ll at least already know about the wedding plans when they see you so you don’t have to answer the same questions over and over (date and location, etc.).  I don’t think it would be rude for your BMs to get a STD before you ask them.  We didn’t ask any of ours until 8 months after the STDs went out, and they didn’t seem to mind.  It would be rude of her to assume she was going to be a BM.

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