(Closed) Save the Dates question

posted 10 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
605 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Ritz-Carlton, Half Moon Bay

huh, i hadn’t thought of this before!  i think a lot can change between the time you send the save the dates and the actual invitation, so it might be easier to just wait about the “guest” part. the invites will still give people plenty of time to invite a guest if they want, and gives you some flexibility with the guest count if you need.

Post # 4
4479 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

I wouldn’t put “and guest” on an STD, since it’s not an invitation and “guest” doesn’t need to put anything in his or her calendar! 😉 Let the person you are inviting know that he/she should hold the date, and then invite him/her with the guest (preferably by name) when you send the invitations.

Post # 6
212 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I put “and guest” on mine only because a lot of people will be traveling and I wanted to let them know far in advance that if they were to make travel arrangments, they would know they had a “guest” that could also make arrangments at the same time.

NOt sure if this same situation applies to you though.

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