(Closed) Save the Dates….SOS

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
391 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I would send it to them anyways just so they can have it. Things might change during the year and they might end up going.

Post # 4
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I agree with Applestar, they would probably like to be thought of in this way, and who knows, their plans may change and they may be able to make it! Also, if it’s a magnet or some other keepsake that goes up somewhere until the wedding/invites go out, it can be a reminder to them of when/where it is if they’d still like to send you a gift without having to awkwardly ask later when it is again. Plus, people just like getting fun mail that isn’t bills 🙂

Post # 6
6014 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’d send one to each household. 

Post # 7
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

Send save the dates to each household.  Since invitations are more formal you can still send them to each household, but if there are children still living at home who are over 18 they get their own invite.

Post # 8
3314 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’d send it.  You can always include a note telling them that you know that they’ve said they can’t make it, but you still wanted them to know that you would love it if they were there if things changed!

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