Post # 1
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Busy bee
It makes a big difference to me for my boyfriend to tell me he loves me during sex. There’s just something about it. The last couple of times he hasn’t said it all the time and it has bothered me. I guess it’s something I feel like I need to hear during sex atleast once. I know he loves me and I’m probably making a big deal out of nothing!
Do you and your partner say I love you very much during sex? Is it something you expect?
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
Uhh we don’t really talk. So no it wouldn’t bother me, lol.
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
Kacey23: He says it consistently, but I am just not a talker, so it actually snaps me a little out of my groove to respond. My brain sort of shuts down and I’m very in the moment. I know he loves me, and he knows I love him 🙂
Maybe your guy is the same way? Just not a talker?
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
Kacey23: If it comes out naturally in the moment then yes, but neither of us expects for the other to say it. Why is it that you need to hear it during sex for you to enjoy it? I would actually think requiring him to say it would kill some of the meaning and spontaneity behind it.
Post # 5
Hostess
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Sugar Beekeeper
- Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL
We definitely don’t say it during sex. Instead there’s lots of profanities being tossed around, lol.
Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
Kacey23: No, not much romantic sex going on in our house! LOL if anything, we might say it afterwards if at all.
Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
It’s so not a necessity. I mean once in blue fine, but I do need to hear it. No.
Post # 9
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Blushing bee
We only say it sometimes during sex, like when it’s special or we haven’t been intimate in longer than usual.
Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
Uh… no, not really 😛 We’re too busy focusing on other things. And, if he does, it doesn’t mean anything different to me than when he says it when we’re not having sex.
Post # 11
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Blushing bee
We tend to during romantic sex, not so much during the dirty, naughty kind.
Post # 12
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Helper bee
I say it quite often, Fiance does not. And, yeah, it bothers me a little, but not enough to make a thread over it.
Post # 13
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Bumble bee
FutureDrAtkins: HAHA, saaaame! We say plenty of sweet things to each other with our clothes on, but once they come off… Yeahhh our words are less sweet, more spicy.
Post # 14
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Bumble bee
Kacey23: ‘Clearing my throat…’ Childddd, saying ‘I love you’ is too decent for the things we say ‘n do during our time of the stuff we do.
Post # 15
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Honey bee
Kacey23: We will say things sometimes during sex, but I don’t think we have ever said “I love you” during sex. We usually reserve that for departures, saying good night and romantic moments (like dates).
If you are that concerned about it and need to hear him say it, then just tell him about it.