(Closed) Scared about miscarrage

posted 10 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
219 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010


Well you have more symptons than I do! ha! I had the cramping for a couple of weeks & this week nothing. I’m 7wks 4days & can NOT wait til I”m where you are at the lovely 12wk mark! This week I don’t feel pregnant at all! Boobs are ok this week, I have started having some lightheadedness a few days this week, but also read that is normal. You will feel better on Thursday when you have your u/s & see that baby bean & it’s heart beating away! Try asking your mom how she felt if that is an option. It might give you some insight to what you are feeling. I have never had MS ~ but my mom didn’t either so I don’t worry about that part.

Hang in there! It is so hard & very normal to worry!


Post # 4
3761 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Hang in there, I’m sure all is normal. 

I don’t see how nausea could be a sign of miscarriage though.  Don’t like 90% of women have morning sickness?  That wouldn’t really work if they all were loosing the pregnancy. 

Post # 5
439 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I think being paranoid throughout pregnancy is totally natural and getting us ready to be moms… my best advice – DO NOT google! I stopped very early on in my pregnancy because there is just so much info out there and a lot of it incorrect.

I had minor cramps at the beginning and all sorts of other odd body-changing feelings. Just try to stay calm and relaxed until Thursday!

Post # 6
13 posts

Just relax and be calm. It’s hard not knowing, but the best thing for you and the baby is just to go through your day. I’ve been sick too, but it’s just part of the pregnancy. And to counter the miscarriage thing, I’ve also read and been told that being sick means a healthy baby. Good luck on Thursday. Let us know how it goes.

Post # 7
1645 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I thought I was really weird at that stage too. We had an 8 week apt, but couldn’t get the heartbeat and I didn’t feel pregnant. I took about 6 preg tests between when we found out and our ultrasound at 11 weeks. It was nice to be reassured that I was still pregnant until I saw it for real on the screen.

Post # 8
1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Those are rational fears to have but I have heard cramping is normal as long as you have no bleeding. Sweetie I am in my 2ww, well 7 days to go and I am scared every day that if I yell, stress, walk wrong or jump the wrong way, a possible pregnancy won’t take. I think alot of ladies early in pregnancy have that fear until they see it right in front of them on that screen. Hope you have a wonderful appt on Thursday!!! Just try and relax! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
4136 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

cramping is normal. glad everything is fine!

STAY AWAY from google. it will make you go crazy.

Post # 11
3306 posts
Sugar bee

Glad everything is fine

Post # 12
14181 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009


Post # 13
638 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2007

Glad to hear everything is ok!!  

Just a warning – You’re a mom now and you’ll be worrying about the little one for the rest of your life ๐Ÿ™‚

For me I didn’t worry too much (above normal) during the pregnancy but I always got nervous the day or 2 before EVERY doc appt!

Now I worry every night when I put him to sleep. Every time we drive somewhere in a car. That little fear that something bad might happen is my constant companion ๐Ÿ™‚ Not that it consumes my thoughts or changes the way I live… but it’s there and I say many extra prayers.

It’s what mommy’s do!

Post # 14
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

That’s awesome news! Yay!

Post # 15
1145 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2000

I’m glad everything is ok!

Post # 16
6350 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m glad you and the baby are OK!

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