(Closed) Scared of moving on.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1059 posts
Bumble bee

@brid32bee:  I just wanted to say I’m sending strength your way. It will be difficult, but you will make it through. I’d look through the boards for how previous bees in similar situations coped – they might be able to offer some useful advice to you!

Post # 4
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4311 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@brid32bee:  Wow, I am so sorry.  It has not been a long time, you will get through this.  It is going to take some time.  I know it’s a crap thing to say, but it is true.  What happened?

Post # 5
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1469 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@brid32bee:  I am so so sorry. Breakups are very painful, especially a broken engagement and with a child involved. It sounds like from your previous post that things were getting pretty bad. Perhaps a separation is best for your daughter if violence was involved. You WILL feel better someday and meet someone new when you are ready. It just takes time unfortunately. Whenever I had been through a breakup i would get so frustrated with myself for knowing intellectually I would be ok but not feeling ok in my heart for quite awhile. Take care of yourself and your daughter! would you mind sharing why you don’t have anyone in your life to talk to anymore?

Post # 6
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333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through, but you need to realize you and your daughter are much better off.

It’s going to feel like hell, I can tell you that. But the only thing you can do is give it time. Allow yourself to grieve but don’t harbour on it. You need to make sure you eat and sleep. I know you have no appetite, but make sure you’re getting nourishment (I actually fainted once from not eating during a bad break-up.) Hang it there, time heals all wounds. It WILL get better, I promise.

Post # 7
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Worker bee

@brid32bee:  Is there any hope of salvaging this relationship, or is it over for good?  I only ask because I looked at your prior posts and saw that you went from posting about receiving a rim job from your (then)FI to calling off your engagement with the same man in a matter of hours.  

If the relationship is over for good, then best of luck with the next chapter in your life.  You will need plenty of strength and personally a good book helps me a lot.  It sucks me right in and I can forget about the troubles in my life while I am reading. 

Post # 8
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338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

So sorry to hear that but I pray that in time it will get easier!!

Post # 9
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1279 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

OP so sorry to hear about the break up, but as another poster said is there any hope of a reconcialation?  especially since you both have a daughter….

sending you lots of hugs.

 

Post # 10
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2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I am praying for you. You will get through this. We are ll here for you!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I am praying for you. You will get through this. We are ll here for you!

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