(Closed) Scared…..we r engaged… but i dont know how to ask for a date??? HELP

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2588 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Counseling. First, you need to do some couples counseling to find out two things: WHY he cheated, and why you are afraid to ask him for something as simple as a wedding date. It seems like there are bigger issues here, and I’d put off the wedding until you can figure them out, either with him or alone.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree with the couple’s counseling.  Also, since you live in different countries, you need to talk to an immigration lawyer in his country to see what process you need to go through in order to immigrate to his country.  There may be a waiting time on this.

Post # 5
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126 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Agreed. Counseling, and I would just be engaged for a while before you start setting anything in stone. Especially since he has screwed up before.

Post # 6
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Seriously if you can’t simply ask him, then there are bigger problems here.

Post # 7
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I agree with the rest of the posters. Counseling would be good for both of you, and if you can’t just give him a few dates to choose from or ask him directly what date/season he would like to get married on/in, then there are bigger issues going on.

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