Post # 1
Hi, i wrote a previous post…when i explain how me and my fi get engaged…then broke up,,, then come back together and now we r engaged again…..we broke up cuz he was confused after he cheated on me and i forgave him….
anyway…..we r doing good for now…. but i am a lil scare…yes yes we r engaged again…. but considering what happen before…..i wish he could be more specific and put a date on in….we r on a long distance relationship…and i will be able to travel to his country next year around May…..so i need help to ask him,,, to put a date to our wedding?……i really need to know….how can i do it???? please help
Post # 3
Counseling. First, you need to do some couples counseling to find out two things: WHY he cheated, and why you are afraid to ask him for something as simple as a wedding date. It seems like there are bigger issues here, and I’d put off the wedding until you can figure them out, either with him or alone.
Post # 4
I agree with the couple’s counseling. Also, since you live in different countries, you need to talk to an immigration lawyer in his country to see what process you need to go through in order to immigrate to his country. There may be a waiting time on this.
Post # 5
Agreed. Counseling, and I would just be engaged for a while before you start setting anything in stone. Especially since he has screwed up before.
Post # 6
Seriously if you can’t simply ask him, then there are bigger problems here.
Post # 7
I agree with the rest of the posters. Counseling would be good for both of you, and if you can’t just give him a few dates to choose from or ask him directly what date/season he would like to get married on/in, then there are bigger issues going on.