Post # 1
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Wannabee
So my brothers girlfriend who we all like is coming to my wedding as my brothers date. My brother is in the bridal party so he will sit at the head table facing the guests. I want to seat his girlfriend at my moms table ( my stepdad set them up and she works with my stepdad so she is close with my family). My aunt is giving my mom such a hard time because she dosnt think she should sit there but sit at a back table with my friends or people her own age. just so she can have room at my moms table to seat a family member I have seen 2 times my entire life. What would u ladies do!?!
Post # 2
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Busy bee
Breezygeezy: IMO, your aunt shouldn’t have a say in your seating chart. I’d sit her wherever I wanted to sit her, even if that’s the family table.
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
I’d sit her with the people she knows.
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
Breezygeezy: If you have the flexibility to sit her at either a family table or a table with “younger” people, I would ask your brother’s girlfriend’s opinion about where she would prefer to sit. I”d probably put her with the people she knows even if they’re older than her. But more than anything, I wouldn’t listen to you aunt period.
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
Breezygeezy: Sit her where you think she’d have the best time. Your aunt isn’t planning this wedding, you and your mom are.
Post # 6
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Helper bee
I sat with my fiances parents when he was in his sisters wedding, and I was perfectly comfortable with that. It also gave them a change to introduce me to other family members, considering they will be attending our wedding.