(Closed) Second guessing everything but marrying my man

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

BREATHE! Take some deep breaths and remind yourself that it will all be okay.  You said it right that you should remember how you felt, not what everything looked like.  Of course we all get crazy detailed oriented with our weddings and want it to be perfect but we have to remember that something will go wrong and on the day, it really won’t matter.  Why? Because you are marrying your partner, your love, your best friend and will be building your life with this person.  You will get through this, just remember to breathe.

Post # 4
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462 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Me too…..I have all of a sudden decided I might like to add teal to my colors. I wish I would have looked at more dresses, because I surely could have done better. I just changed the entire flower order, and now I think I want to.do it again. I’ve changed the grooms tux, and now I think maybe I should change all the tuxes. I’m not sure I’ve picked the right music, I may want to change that up. And so on……….the worst of it all is the dress regret.

Post # 5
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577 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I can’t imagine you are possibly alone in all of this. I’m so far out and I am constantly changing my mind/plans. The important thing is that you are sure about what matters, and that is who you are marrying.

I’m also posting to say that I hadn’t heard of bamboo plates before this and now I’m seriously considering them! Thanks for the idea!

Post # 6
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4192 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Breathe. And yes, unfortunately these “aack!” moments happen. 

Take a couple of days off from everything wedding- don’t even say the word, and let yourself recoup (stay out of the hive, too!). Yoga was a God-send for me during planning.

You’ve got your head on straight- this sentence made me smile- “The only thing I’m sure of right now is that I’m marrying the man that I love.”- so I know you’re going to be okay! 🙂

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