(Closed) second intimacy related topic – having sex or making love?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 32
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

its always just sex… sweet sex, hot sex, nasty sex but its all just sex.

Post # 34
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Bumble bee

Depends on the day.

 

Sometimes we do make love…long drawn out very intimate sessions, and sometimes we fuck, generally shorter no romantic overtones…just outright fucking. And sometimes we have sex, that would be a quickie in my book.

Post # 35
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

i don’t know why but the phrase “make love” makes me want to laugh. It sounds so “rico suave” to me.  

Post # 36
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Neither.  We fuck.  Sometimes when we joke around, I say stuff like “I need you to bang me”.  Usually, we’re just talking about fucking….before we do, while we’re doing it and after. 

Post # 37
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I refered to our “deed” as us having sex and he gasped and said we made love not had sex, this from the man who love my noises, asking how much I like it and where, how hard, right there? lol. 

Post # 38
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383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Most of the time we have sex.  When we haven’t seen each other in a long time, it’s really intense…  We f*ck.  (I can’t bring myself to type it.  I’m a baby.)  We honestly refer to sex as “playing” a lot of the time…  We tease each other a lot.  (“I wanna play” or “feel like playing?”)

We’ve made love before, but as PP’s above me said, the term makes me giggle.  When you’re not actually in the middle of making love, you wouldn’t even want to think of sex as something that sounds so silly and old-fashioned.

Maybe I’m just immature :p

Post # 39
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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@Britk:  I like your “feel like playing?” Laughing

Fiance always says “wanna wrestle?”

Post # 40
Hostess
2555 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I have sex, I don’t make love!

Post # 41
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We don’t use the term “making love.”, that’s kind of corny.  I guess we couldn’t call it that anyway since I’m always saying “F*ck Me” during sex.  Yikes. 

Post # 42
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m from mexico, and well i see the difference, but for me “making love” is going slowly, more emotional.

To have sex is rough and fun. 

I find the “Make love” term kinda corny.

Post # 43
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

My Fiance expressed to me the first week we met that he believes that when you love the person it is always making love because it is an extention of the emotional relationship.

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