Post # 1
First, several days ago I posted asking for help on how to get through being anxious during the first trimester. Thank you to everyone who responded. Unfortunately, we did lose the baby.
I am so frustrated. We have two beautiful kids, one 17 and the other is 2. I instantly became pregnant with both and had no complications during my pregnancies. I have now had two miscarriages within the last 8 months and am worried that I’ve hit a wall, because I am 40. I had been hopeful because I just had my daughter two years ago, but…. With both pregnancies we saw a heart beat, one at 8 weeks and the other at 7 weeks. With both pregnancies we lost them at 8 1/2 weeks although one was a missed miscarriage and we didn’t find out until nearly 13 weeks.
My heart is shattered, but we are going to try again, and again until our dear daughter has a younger sibling or until I hit menopause. Good luck to all!
Post # 2
Hi Bee. I’m so sorry for your losses. I’m sorry you’re feeling down. I’m sure it will happen for you soon.
Have you been seeing just a regular OB or have you been seeing a Reproductive Endocrinologist? The RE may be more helpful in assessing any issues you may be having due to age and egg viability.
Post # 3
HappyORBride : I’m so sorry bee. I’ll be 39 in a few months and my recent MC sounds a lot like yours – heartbeat at 8 weeks, nothing at 10 weeks. I started seeing an RE and they are running a panel of tests to see what the cause might have been, to try to prevent it from happening again. Did you have chromosomal testing done on the embryos?
so, so sorry you’re going through this 😢
Post # 4
HappyORBride : I’m so sorry that you are going through this, just here to offer my support.
Post # 5
So sorry for your loss <3
Post # 6
I’m so sorry to hear about this. I’m praying for peace for you and your family. I wish you luck on your continued journey.
Post # 7
Oh gosh, I remember your previous post, and I am so sorry to see this update.
What is your Dr saying in terms of testing etc? Losing two after seeing a hb would lead me to believe that there is something at play here, and hopefully they can get to the bottom of it.
I hope for healing for you and your family, and prayers you get your rainbow soon!
Post # 8
I’m so sorry to hear this. I just had a D&C today, for a miscarriage that sounds like one of yours – heartbeat at 7w, nothing at 11w. Baby had died at 8+6. I hope you get your rainbow soon!