(Closed) Fiance is making me sad 10 days before wedding

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
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1082 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I would NOT get my marriage license one day before the wedding. Terrible idea. You never know what could happen. We did ours two weeks before. And im pretty sure there was a 48 waiting period until it could be used. 

Also, my Darling Husband and I argued quite a bit in the days before the wedding. It’s just stressful stuff. i’d let it go and just send a text explaining why it needs to be done in advance. 

Post # 17
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I’m sorry your so stressed out. Call the clerks office and see how long it will take you. My first marriage happened in another state. I was able to do everything online the week before. The day before the wedding we went in signed our names and we were done. Just see if there is anything you can do beforehand to speed things up.

Post # 18
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197 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Victoria Wedding Chapel

Michigan takes 3 days to process a marriage license I believe. Most places have a waiting period. That’s why when people want to get married RIGHT THIS SECOND, they do it in Vegas. Nevada doesn’t have a waiting period.

Anyway, it’s possible that he’s just as stressed as you are. It’s unfair to take it all out on you. Talk to him and tell him you don’t appreciate that, and ask him if everything is ok with him. Everything could be solved, or at least cleared up, if you just talk to each other.

Good luck, and I hope this bumpy patch gets resolved and your wedding and marriage go off perfectly! 🙂

Post # 20
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2117 posts
Buzzing bee

Unless you live in Vegas don’t plan that picking up the license the day before will be no big deal.

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