Seconds thoughts before proposal

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What should I do?
    You're ridiculous, marry her! : (7 votes)
    8 %
    Red flags galore, move on. : (60 votes)
    71 %
    Too much nuance for a poll, I'll leave a comment : (17 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 136
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

    chrisbeme :  

    Well if you do propose I sincerely  hope she turns you down.  You may be  perfectly charming  IRL but from what you have written here you sound like a pompous conceited arse who believes  himself to be deserving of some mythical perfect woman who, in addition, should be on her knees in gratitude at your even thinking of marriage  with her.   

    It  doesn’t surprises me at all that you’ve only had one relationship at 39,  it suprises me you’ve  had any.  

    I am now going to the  next troom to reward my husband for being a flawed but beloved  human being .  We might have rows on occasion but he would never write such stuff about me, never . 

    ETA, I replied in haste before reading your updates so I now think  you to be a rather  better person than I thought and perhaps  I should  apologise  .  I still think she would be better off with someone far less self absorbed and self congratulatory though. 

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