- 2 years ago
Well if you do propose I sincerely hope she turns you down. You may be perfectly charming IRL but from what you have written here you sound like a pompous conceited arse who believes himself to be deserving of some mythical perfect woman who, in addition, should be on her knees in gratitude at your even thinking of marriage with her.
It doesn’t surprises me at all that you’ve only had one relationship at 39, it suprises me you’ve had any.
I am now going to the next troom to reward my husband for being a flawed but beloved human being . We might have rows on occasion but he would never write such stuff about me, never .
ETA, I replied in haste before reading your updates so I now think you to be a rather better person than I thought and perhaps I should apologise . I still think she would be better off with someone far less self absorbed and self congratulatory though.