(Closed) Secret Confession….

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

When before we moved in with my FHs mom, we used to all the time.. .it was the same thing… just 10-15 minutes of peace and quiet to talk about whatever, no interruptions… living with mom stopped that and when we moved out we just got so far from it and our schedules are so opposite that we rarely do anymore but I miss it 🙁 not weird…

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Haha that actually sounds really awesome. I totally agree that its hard to find time though, I can hardly pry that dang iPhone from my Fiance

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

If our shower were roomy enough, we would to! It’s one of our fave things to do on holiday, tho. Eh, weird things… it’s late, can’t think of anything off the top of my head, I’m sure I’m missing something obvious! How weird are we talking? Common or garden variety, or full on freaky?!vI suppose whatever gets the laughs lol !!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

We do it all the time…same here it isn’t sexual. Just time to talk. We love it. 🙂 It isn’t weird at all! 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I agree – it’s way more practical and really not as sexy as people think. I guess they feel that way mainly due to that fact that this means you were both naked at the same time. We do it about once or twice a week, when we are getting ready together or happen to shower after exercising.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

Not weird or sexual at all. Totally normal. Maybe your friend’s just a stick in the mud, like Bree on Desperate Housewives, lol. And please, don’t take offense, I don’t want it to seem like I’m bashing your friend, (I’m not, really) but some people are just more shy about their bodies, and the like. For instance, I know ppl who would never in a million years discuss bodily functions w/ their SO, or pick their nose in front of them, etc etc, but to me, it’s totally normal. I suppose it’s all about one’s comfort level. To each his/her own!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

Boyfriend or Best Friend and I shower together all the time. It’s not sexual at all. Just something we do and it’s so normal now that it’s almost weird to shower alone – much more roomy. 😀

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

My Fiance and do as well…unless I’m still dead to the world in the morning haha.  We love the time together.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I wish we could but Fi likes cold showers and I like hot showers. Even when I try to turn the water down to a more comfortable degree for him, he still thinks its too hot. We’d totally do it if we had two shower heads though….that’d be awesome!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

First of all — The hubby and I are the same way. We shower together more than a few times a week. We love to chit chat and whatever…

 

Miss Zig Zag — We have the same issue. I love them hott and he likes them cold. We were just talking about how when we buy our first home we will make it a two head shower on opposite sides of the shower so we can look at each other while we talk and one person isn’t freezing. lol

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Hahaha weve been showering together for almost 4 years!! People look at me like Ive got two heads when they find out but we love it – its hardly ever sexual its just fun us time! When we moved last year our shower shrunk in size but we still fit in and alternate under the water (just sucks in winter!!)

Post # 16
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Blushing bee

We put in a giant shower (Four by Six Feet) with multiple shower heads so we could shower at the same time. It’s awesome. Our main issue, is that our shower has an echo so sometimes it’s hard to talk, but I LOVE it. Some of my friends are creeped out by it too and assume we put the shower in for sex only. Lately, our schedules aren’t that compatible so it’s nice to shower together on the weekends when we can just sort of hang out in there.

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