(Closed) Secret I gotta share…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: do you keep secrets from your SO?
    Yes, we thrive on manipulation : (0 votes)
    Yes, because a healthy relationship needs a level of mystery : (6 votes)
    6 %
    Sometimes, because people ask me to : (29 votes)
    31 %
    Sometimes, but not intentionally - stuff just doesn't come up with him : (23 votes)
    24 %
    No, I tell him everything : (35 votes)
    37 %
    No, I tell everyone everything : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Other :) : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1212 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Oooh, thats a tough secret to keep! But just try to think that the excitement your Maid/Matron of Honor had and you felt when she told you will be the same when Bridesmaid or Best Man tells J! You can’t take that away from them. How exciting for your MOH! I love it when bridesmaids are pregnant, I think its such a positive happy thing for a wedding. (although seeing my BMs are my youngers sisters, they better not be pregnant at my wedding!)

    Post # 4
    Member
    2779 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    That’s so amazing! Ooh, fingers crossed that they tell J soon so you can both know. When it’s something like this I have the HARDEST time keeping it from FH. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    4001 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I would be freaking out trying not to tell him!  But, you definitely can’t!  Secrets like that are so hard for me to keep from my Fiance.  There are other secrets that I do not share, in my opinion, friends should be able to confide in each other without fear of their SO’s finding out.  As long as it doesn’t effect your SO, that shouldn’t be a problem.

    Post # 6
    Member
    831 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    How exciting! Keep yourself busy to distract from the thought!!

    Post # 7
    Member
    14183 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I keep secrets like this from my husband! After all, I hate the idea of confiding in my friends and them running to their husbands so I like to do unto them.

    Sometimes i keep things from Darling Husband. They’re just none of his business! It’s not always intentional but I really try to avoid gossiping to my husband. His eyes glaze over. And frankly, there are lots of things about HIS friends I don’t wanna know!

    Post # 8
    Member
    3124 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I keep secrets, but only if they are big secrets ๐Ÿ™‚ Then they’re in the vault. But a little secret that my non gossiping husband could know won’t hurt anyone, haha.

    Post # 9
    Member
    3331 posts
    Sugar bee

    Oh man, great surprise!  It will be hard to keep it from him!  I occasionally keep secrets like this from The Hubs, if people ask me to.  We were friends forever before we dated, so we have almost all of our friends in common.  Plus, his best friend is married to mine, so there are times where I find out things that I end up keeping from him. (And FWIW, he knew that my best friend’s husband was going to propose and didn’t tell me!)

    Post # 11
    Member
    2788 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    What great news! I tell Fiance everything, but I am a very bad secret keeper

    Post # 12
    Member
    1676 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Eek.  I would try very hard to keep the secret.  BUT, having a secret like that would pretty much kill me.  I would totally want to tell my fiance.

    Post # 14
    Hostess
    18637 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    That’s so tough!  I hope she tells everyone soon so you don’t have to keep it in too long!

    Post # 15
    Member
    1854 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I kept only two secrets from my husband:
    His sister’s wedding gift to us, from the time she asked me if it would be a good idea to the time she gave it to us.
    AND
    His sister planning to get engaged during the week of our Destination Wedding, after our wedding. They had found the perfect ring while on that vacation and she was excited to share that it was going to happen soon – but I wanted my husband to be surprised so I didn’t tell anything until she made her announcement herself the day after the wedding!

    Post # 16
    Member
    1251 posts
    Bumble bee

    I can keep secrets from anyone else, but I can’t keep a secret from him to save my life! It’s like he looks at me, and instantly knows I am hiding something! It blows, because I love surprises. Ugh.

    But we met playing poker, so he can just say he’s always got a good read on me.

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