- nadnuk
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
And I also feel for your husband having his mother be so uncaring to disown him.
I hope for both of your sakes that she will get over her issues in time, and that they will recognize the love you share.
And I also feel for your husband having his mother be so uncaring to disown him.
I hope for both of your sakes that she will get over her issues in time, and that they will recognize the love you share.
She’s attempted to pull the funding anyway, but his father opposed. Please be clear that she is a stay at home mom and has never worked a job in her life.
His father, being more in control of the finances, thought it would be irrational to take their son out of school. She just told him that he was very lucky his father wasn’t dead.
All is done. I thank everyone for their advice.
What a controlling, manipulative witch! Since she doesn’t work, I suggest she get a hobby – she has too much time on her hands, if she’s always plotting against you.
I hope that everything works out in the end. Update us if you can too.
***Sidenote*** Here is a link that I found that describes my Future Mother-In-Law. Sharing articles like this helped my Fiance identify the problem and be better able to cope/ improve the situation for our sanity. Check it out and see if your Mother-In-Law fits into this category. From what you have shared she might, but she may not. I don’t want to assume that your situation is the same as mine. I actually sincerely hope that it’s not. If it is however, this may help you and your husband gain a better understanding. Best of luck to you And your husband 🙂
http://m.voices.yahoo.com/narcissistic-mothers-perfect-facade-damaged-inside-5290797.html
I like the idea of having a vow renewal when you have more money. That is what my husband and I are doing. It is for us but also to soothe my parents because they were very upset when we eloped in 2010. My husband and I told them right away but they still cut us off for a year. I knew that if I allowed my parents to take over my wedding, they would have tried to take over our marriage as well.
It is hard to say “I’m a grown up and I can do what I want!” when parents are footing the bill for your life. It appears that your race and culture are a problem for your in-laws. Sometimes in-laws come around once a grandchild is born. I hope that things can improve as in-law problems are stressful on a marriage.
best of luck to you. it will all work out. glad you dont have to put up with such narrowmindedness as well as racist in laws now that the parents have severed their ties.
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