(Closed) Secret Singles Behavior

posted 12 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 17
428 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009 - Church Ceremony/Reception at The Waterford House

Haha, we have the same policy Peeptoe. 🙂  I have restrained from spreading my girly stuff all over the bathroom, … I try to make room for his stuff too.  I don’t paint my toenails as often and we actually have meals together at the table..I used to love eating tomatos, cheese and sourdough bread with a glass of wine for dinner on the couch when I lived alone.

Mr. Beagle is really good about letting me have "me time"… which usually involves spending time in my craft room, reading, or shopping.   This is definitely a must for our relationship… I tend to get crabby if I don’t get time alone.

Post # 18
1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Hmm… I used to have secret single behavior. Then I put that on hold for a bit, but now that we’ve been living together I think everything is out in the open! I used to pretend I didn’t care about American Idol, and now we watch it together.

I think the only thing I try to keep private is some of my grooming. I still want him to think I’m low-maintence, so I hide a few products under the sink.

Good topic!

Post # 19
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Kara321 — lol I did the SAME THING this morning, rewatched SATC movie because of the post on the dress. What a riot.

As for my SSB — going through old magazines (fashion or food) and rip out things I love while watching SATC, Grey’s or HIMYM. I also like to put on music and dance around as I do chores. Fiance has seen me do this and thought I was nuts.

Post # 20
773 posts
Busy bee

My Fiance has class every Wednesday evening, and he doesn’t get home until 10.  I love those nights because I make myself a big bowl of pasta with spinach and mascarpone (I love it he hates it), pour myself a glass of red wine, listen to Eva Cassidy and sing along really loud, and then watch Ghost Hunters until I fall asleep.  


Post # 21
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2020

My husband teaches on Mondays and we always have junk food for dinner and watch bad reality TV. Yay!

Post # 22
100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

We don’t live together yet but when we do move in together in a few months, I know I’m going to miss eating appetizers (apples & cheese, for example) as dinner.  I’m sure I’ll miss watching "girly" shows on TV too.

Post # 23
14 posts
  • Wedding: May 2010

something must be definitely wrong with me then..i live with my fiance..and i still do all the things that are considered "secret singles behavior"…i have no shame

Post # 24
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

i love to watch the bachelor

Post # 25
14 posts

I am right there with clueless bride! I lived with my Fiance before we got married and I did everything the same! I watch gossip girl, the hills, even say yes to the dress! lol also when it’s that time of the month and I am not very nice he makes everything that I like to eat that I would have had to make myself like cheese fries! sometimes I go to 4 different places for dinner.. Well breadsticks from olive garden, pasta from carinos, desert from cheesecake factry that kind of thing! lol crazy and nutty and I can’t even eat 1/3 of it but he still does it! be yourself! don’t hide it! he has asked you to marry him… he’s got to see the ( OMG! i can’t believe I did that in front of him ) real single/engaged/married you sometime!

Post # 26
193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010


My secret singles behaviour is buying lots of junkfood and pigging out while watching my DVD collections. My fiance is a major health freak so this behaviour usually makes him shake his head. We have lived together for a while now, so that behaviour of mine has been kind of abolished, just because he lectures me about nutrition allll the time. Although, I still do it every now and then for myself, CluelessBride – I’m like you, I have no shame, lol.

Post # 27
7429 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Haha I really don’t hide anything from Fiance, I’m very much an open book! I think we talk about our bathroom sessions a little too easily for people who don’t kids – and we’ve had the "do you think its normal that we talk about poo and farting this much BEFORE we have kids??" talk more than once.  Guess that’s why we’re meant to be….

The only thing I really miss is the court tv and other reality shows he can’t stand. Oh and painting my toenails in the same room as him. He hates the smell

Post # 28
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Ha!  why do you think i am commenting on this board at almost 1am??  my guilty pleasure is wedding bee – and i only log on when he goes to sleep.  🙂

Post # 29
796 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

When we first moved in together, there were things I swore he would never see me do – nothing bad, just secret stuff (like, picking at split ends semi-obsessively). But, after over a year of living in the same small apartment, those rules are out! I don’t think either of us has any secrets anymore.

Post # 30
11808 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

I watch America’s Next Top Model–my fiance has actually watched a ton of it on accident when he was in the room.  He even watched the end of one episode when I was out of town! 

Post # 31
368 posts
Helper bee

After living with my Fiance for so long nothing is a secret. I don’t use hairspray or perfume as much, or near him… it bothers his allergies. He doesn’t have his computer in our room because I am light sleeper. I get to have mine in our room. He will watch Jon and Kate plus eight with me and has sat down to spend time with me while I’m watching a Say Yes to the Dress marathon. When I lived alone I would drink out of cartons and bottles of pop. I stopped that habit. I also ate only organic, I stopped that habit too.

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