(Closed) Secular Pre-Marital Counseling (long for no good reason)

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think it’s to point out the issues you have, just give you tools on how to deal with issues if/when they show up later or tips to avoid issues in the first place.  Sounds like a good idea to me!

Post # 5
Member
218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2006

We went to one counselling session before we got married, took one look at all the questions they asked, including how many times a week we were intimate, and never went back.  We went to one counselling session after we got married because I HATE the area where we live now.  The counselor basically said if my Darling Husband really loved me he’d walk away from the mortgage to make me happy.  Darling Husband said he loved me enough not to do that because we needed a place to live and that would ruin our credit.  We never went back.

Personally I’ve never found counselling to be very helpful at all.  I’m not sure it that means we need ALOT of help or we’e doing prett well 🙂 !

Post # 7
Member
218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2006

@chocolatemalt: Worse yet, the first one was my MINISTER.  And we had about 200 questions, but seriously 10 of the first 20 were about sex.  What really burned my biscuits was that I contacted someone who went there with her long term boyfriend and their questions were different than ours!  Seriously I think when we told the old guy we met on the internet he gave us some kind of special questions. . . We ended up getting married in a different church.

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