(Closed) Seeking ideas for a ceremon reading…

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Not sure if these will help, but I pored over readings for e-v-e-r!  We chose two poems that we thought were beautiful and appropriate for both the day and for us:


By Roy Croft 

I love you, 

Not only for what you are, 

But for what I am 

When I am with you. 


I love you, 

Not only for what 

You have made of yourself, 

But for what 

You are making of me. 


I love you 

For the part of me 

That you bring out; 

I love you 

For putting your hand 

Into my heaped-up heart 

And passing over 

All the foolish, weak things 

That you can’t help 

Dimly seeing there, 

And for drawing out

Into the light 

All the beautiful belongings 

That no one else had looked 

Quite far enough to find. 


I love you because you 

Are helping me to make 

Of the lumber of my life 

Not a tavern 

But a temple; 

Out of the works 

Of my every day 

Not a reproach 

But a song. 


I love you 

Because you have done 

More than any creed 

Could have done 

To make me good, 

And more than any fate

To make me happy. 


You have done it 

Without a touch, 

Without a word, 

Without a sign. 

You have done it 

By being yourself. 



By Maya Angelou


We, unaccustomed to courage

exiles from delight

live coiled in shells of loneliness 

until love leaves its high holy temple 

and comes into our sight 

to liberate us into life. 


Love arrives 

and in its train come ecstasies 

old memories of pleasure 

ancient histories of pain. 

Yet if we are bold, 

love strikes away the chains of fear 

from our souls. 


We are weaned from our timidity 

In the flush of love’s light 

we dare be brave 

And suddenly we see 

that love costs all we are 

and will ever be. 

Yet it is only love 

which sets us free.

Post # 4
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Friendship by Judy Bielicki:

 It is often said that love makes the world go round.
However, without doubt, it is friendship which keeps our spinning existence on an even keel.
True friendship provides so many of the essentials for a happy life –
it is the foundation on which to build an enduring relationship,
it is the mortar which bonds us together in harmony,
and it is the calm, warm protection we sometimes need when the world outside seems cold and chaotic
True friendship holds a mirror to our foibles and failings, without destroying our sense of worthiness.
True friendship nurtures our hopes, supports us in our disappointments, and encourages us to grow to our best potential.
  ___and ____came together as friends, today they pledge to each other not only their love but also the strength, warmth and, most importantly, the fun of true friendship.

Blessing of the Hands

“These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever. These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future. These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other. These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief fills your mind. These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes; tears of sorrow, and tears of joy. These are the hands that will tenderly hold your children. These are the hands that will help you to hold your family as one. These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it. And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.”

Post # 5
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

“The Art Of Marriage”
by Wilferd A. Peterson (short, popular version) Compliments Of Erik & Beth Kent, Co-Publishers of NJWedding.com A good marriage must be created.
In the art of marriage the little things are the big things
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say “I love you” at least once each day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is speaking words of appreciation and
demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is finding room for the things of the spirit.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is not only marrying the right partner…
It is being the right partner.
by Wilferd Arlan Peterson

Post # 6
2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

What about an Irish wedding blessing? There are many out there to choose from just google them!

Post # 8
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh the places you’ll go Dr.Suess

We read in “THE PROPHET”- this could also just be a regular reading for later
“True love gives nothing but itself and takes nothing from itself. Love does not possess, nor would it be possessed. For love is sufficient unto love. Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. To awake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving. To rest at noon and meditate love’s ecstasy; to return home at eventide with gratitude and then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart. And a song of Praise upon your lips.”

“Love is a temporary madness; it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.” by Louis de Bernieres

Post # 9
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We did “the irrational season” by madeleine l’englel, and “union” by robert fulghum. Everyone loved both readings.

Post # 11
1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We are using “Union” by Robert Fulghum.

Union by Robert Fulghum
 commitments in an informal way. All of those conversations that were held in a car, or over a meal, or during long walks – all those conversations that began with, “When we’re married”, and continued with “I will” and “you will” and “we will” – all those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding.

The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things that we’ve promised, and hoped, and dreamed – well, I meant it all, every word.”

Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another – acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, even teacher, for you have learned much from one another these past few years. Shortly you shall say a few words that will take you across a threshold of life, and things between you will never quite be the same.

For after today you shall say to the world –
This is my husband. This is my wife.”

“You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes, to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making



Post # 12
1820 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

You might want to check out the Indie Bride blog as well – they have a HUGE repository of wedding readings that I found really helpful.

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