(Closed) seething just a little bit

posted 4 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
1335 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA

I’d be annoyed too! Although there’s not much u can do at this point, at least you got to vent here and hopefully release some of your frustrations!

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 3 months ago by  Kings7911.
Post # 3
265 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would be livid but would probably outwardly say nothing. Depending on how passive aggressive I was feeling, I might jump into the Facebook conversation and say “yes, homeowner, thayou you so much for lending your home for the venue. It was perfect and made it easy to arrange everything else! Thanka again!” Not so mature, but I would be tempted. 


Did you have information about who was the host on your invite? Who did you have people RSVP to?

Post # 4
254 posts
Helper bee

That would irritate me too. Hopefully the bride knows your contribution.

Post # 5
46675 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

anonybee0810:  Post something a little passive aggresive yourself  ” I’d like to join in thanking___ for the use of her home. The bridesmaids (list their names) and I are so grateful that we had someplace to honor ___ (the bride). We worked hard to plan a fun afternoon for ___ (bride) and her guests, planning entertainment, providing the food, beverages and decor, but the shower would not have been what it was without ___ allowing us to use her home.”

Post # 8
3025 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

julies1949:  YES. Do this, OP.

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