(Closed) “Self-love” Poll (*wink, wink*)

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What's your position on masturbation?
    We both do it, and we both know each other does it. No biggie! : (221 votes)
    61 %
    I do it and I'm sure he does too, but we don't mention it to each other. : (58 votes)
    16 %
    I don't do it, but I know he does, and it doesn't bother me (at least, not much.) : (34 votes)
    9 %
    I don't do it, but I know he does, and really upsets me. : (4 votes)
    1 %
    I don't do it, and I have asked him not to do it either. (As far as I know, he doesn't) : (6 votes)
    2 %
    It's against our morals/beliefs/religion, so we don't do it. : (10 votes)
    3 %
    I know he does it, but he doesn't know that I do it!! : (9 votes)
    2 %
    Gross. It's never crossed my mind to think about this. Thanks a lot!! : (0 votes)
    Something else/different situation. : (22 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    157 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    Since we’re obstaining until the wedding, this came up in conversation at our house the other night. We both have, we both do occasionally, so we’re okay with it. I always ask if he thinks about me on the rare occasion that he does, he says yes, I’m happy. haha. We’d both much rather be with each other though…*sigh* Only 23 more days… LOL

    Post # 4
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    6009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    We’re “other,” I guess.  We don’t have religious or moral beliefs that stop us from doing it; just neither of us have ever been into masturbation.  I guess there’s just other things we’d rather do, instead.  😉

    Post # 5
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    2144 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’m pretty he does it, but I have absolutely no idea how often or when or anything and I’m not entirely sure if I want to know lol I joke about occasionally, like the other night when we were playing Wii, you had to shake the Wii-mote up and down in that kind of way and I joked that he should be good at that one with all the practice he’s had. He proceeded to give me a goofy look and just said “whatever!” and smiled and went on or something.

    Post # 6
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    LoL…I love anonymous polls Wink

    Post # 7
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    960 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I think this poll is so funny for some reason. It’s sort of taboo for women to admit that they “self love” but look at the majority of responses here. Is it a “don’t ask, don’t tell” type thing? Very interesting poll, MJ!

    Post # 8
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    1023 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    In my ab psyc class during the sex disorder lectures our teacher made an interesting point about masturbation.

    She asked us first…

    how many of you have ever masturbated? (and very few people raised their hands)

    how many of you get diarrhea? (and pretty much everyone raised their hands)

    Isn’t it weird that so many people were willing to admit to diarrhea, but not masturbation? I personally wouldn’t discuss either, but I thought her demonstration was telling. Just wanted to add that since people were commenting on how masturbation is so taboo.

    Post # 9
    Member
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    believe it or not, youre actually missing another option!

    its “i do it and he doesnt”

     

     

    Post # 10
    Member
    1980 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Eloping– that isn’t a viable option 😉

    Post # 11
    Member
    960 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I agree, texas! I have a hard time when guys say they don’t. Suuuure ya don’t, buddy.

    Post # 12
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    3979 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    We’re a long distance couple & we have to keep things spicy during our phone conversations. We’re both very open about it & comfortable with it… we kinda have to be! It keeps us somewhat satisfied until we see each other again!  

    Its an essential part of a LDR… it keeps us connected, as silly as it sounds!

    Post # 13
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I’d like to say that the only options for only “him” not doing it would be like, if he was constantly surrounded by dudes….I had mentioned this to my Darling Husband while he was deployed and he said that some guys do it in the barracks around everyone else. Once, when the Redskins cheerleaders came to Iraq, he refused to go because there are too many soldiers with their hands down their pants, playing with their junk in broad daylight!

    Guys are so gross sometimes! Dunno why i felt the need to share that with you all…but i was pretty disturbed by how open men are in general about playing with themselves, but that’s army life for you.

    I have a friend who tells a story of a lieutenant popping a squat on the track cuz, well, he had to poop and didn’t want to fail his running test.

    *eye roll* Women are just not like this, THANK GOODNESS! Some privacy is okay =].

    But yes, taboo for sure. I think anything taboo is very interesting in general as i’m sure that in 50 years it will not be the case as society progresses socially.

    Heck, look how many companies out there cater to women’s sex toys! There are tons! I was incredibly surprised when i went to buy something for our honeymoon (for us!) and obviously there was an insane amount of women’s products out there.

    Oh and I always secrertly roll my eyes when all my friends claim “oh but he would never masturbate. he loves me and that’s cheating on me”. mmhmmm. So why are there playboys in the bathroom of the frat house?!

    Post # 14
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    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Marie Gabrielle

    I am surprised by the comments about it being “taboo.”  It’s a fully open conversation with just about every single woman I know!

    Post # 15
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    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Marie Gabrielle

    “single” meaning unanimously!

    Post # 16
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    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    hmmmm – but my guy doesnt.  in fact, about a month ago i mentioned buying some toys he was like “no you cant do that” so i also think he doesnt know that i do or if he suspects he doesnt mention. btw, i did bought a toy and he doesnt know about it

    my hubby is a bit older than me. before we got together he openly admitted to masturbating but since we became a couple i dont believe he has.  but ive said it a few times on WB, my hormones have completely insane this year so i dont think the guy gets much of a chance for alone time. 

    whew… info i would NEVER share with a friend but on weddingbee, i spill my guts!
     

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