(Closed) Selfish SIL and I'm ready to kill

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
15461 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@black_sheep64:  This girl who made me and SO look and feel like crap for so many years was FAR worse than we ever were!

Dont let her get to you.  Whether or not she was “worse” than you, who cares what she thinks anyways… why even let it bother you.  F– her, it’s your life and you’re the only one that has to be hapy with it.

Post # 4
3311 posts
Sugar bee

I understand honey. Don’t let her take up any more space in your mind.

Post # 5
705 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 1993

I don’t disagree that her behavior is a little out of line, but I have to admit that it seems like your issue is that you’re taking this too personally.  Let these people make fools of themselves, it really has nothing to do with you.  There’s no point in getting upset over the choices other people make.

Post # 6
2008 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Why are you letting her bother you at all?!

Post # 7
5949 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Oh for pete’s sake…really?  Your going to let this get to you?  P.S.  complaining about her airing your dirty laundry and then dumping it all over this forum harldy makes a person sympathetic…the point is all of this is in the past, you can’t change any of it, but you are in control of how you react to it….so your SIL is a piece of disposable road trash that likes getting her boots smoked on bathroom floors and getting groped in front of the elderly…not your area…next time you know your going to be around her, make bets with your SO about what she’s going to do next.  Whoever wins, doesn’t have to do the dishes for a week, turn her into your personal show/casino and you’ll just be so entertained it won’t matter any more.

Post # 9
11259 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

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@black_sheep64:  you’ve vented and now i think you need to let it go.  anger and hatred can be very toxic.  don’t let her get to you.  you’re still in your honeymoon phase, enjoy it.

Post # 10
2861 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

What is there to call out? She can bang her husband in public if she wants and that has zero affect on yu. I am having a hard time understanding how her sex life has anything to do with you.

Post # 11
5656 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m confused by how she really did YOU wrong, she’s just acting disgusting and immature which just makes get and her husband look bad. What does it have to do with you?

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