(Closed) Selfish to leave after the wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Honeymoons
  • poll: Do you find it rude to not stay for brunch the day after your wedding?

    No - it's not rude

    Yes - it's rude and you should go to the brunch

  • Post # 32
    2449 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @MrsS_to_be:  In regards to the brunch…..eh….I don’t know.  I sit on the fence.  I think it would be rally great if you would stay…..but they don’t get to dictate your schedule.

    BUT– I do think you are crazy for having a flight that LEAVES at 6am the day after your wedding– that means you have to be at the airport a couple hours before 6am.  You will have no sleep– don’t you want to make sure your dress makes it home, your gifts make it home?  

    I know it might sound tempting, but have you been married before?  We didn’t get to our hotel room until after 2am the night of our wedding.  Even if you’re *planning* on getting home earlier (we were!)….it’s your wedding night.  You might be out late.  I would highly suggest looking for a flight that leaves at least a few hours later, if not the next day.  

    Post # 33
    142 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    My family have booked a local restaurant go to for Sunday dinner the day after our wedding which I assumed my and my future husband would go along to. I found out this weekend that we are not invited as apparently we are to be waved off on our honeymoon on our wedding night and are not allowed to return!

    I think you are not at all selfish in wanting to leave and am surprised that your family would expect otherwise. Leaving for your honeymoon is an advantage of being the newly married couple!


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