Post # 16
Hi. At my first wedding, I invited people because it was “the right thing to do”. It was verbally, emotionally and overly personally expensive to do that.
Ask your Fiance and yourself if next year, 5 years, 20 years from now it will matter if the couple that is obviously causing you conflicted feelings will be important to you. It looks like they have already stated that you two and your futre wedding & life together is not important.
Post # 17
ChrissyMary9515: I had my Fiance kind of drop a hint, but the brother kind of figured. It’s not mystery that his wife and I don’t get along, but with her personality (a 33 year old woman who acts like a spoiled 15 year old), it’s really hard to talk to her about anything and she freaks out if I’m even mentioned. He understands and told my Fiance he seriously doubted she would have even come to begin with, so it’s just as well.
Post # 18
UPDATE: Had a talk with Fiance last night about this couple. He still said he wanted to call the husband and talk “man to man” and ask what the hell is problem was. I convinced him we need to cut them out completely. The wife texted me telling me why she unfriended me… that I was writing posts that pointed towards her and it causes drama. I have never in my life posted about her. I wrote a post about how happy I was to have friends and family in my life that I have and she took that to mean excluding her… and got mad… uhhhhh what? She had previously gotten mad a few years ago when I posted “Just watch an episode of True Life: I’m in a bad relationship. Boy do these couples make me appreciate my boyfriend!”….. she said I was secretly talking about her and her husband not having a good relationship. Bitch, were you on that tv show? No. I wasn’t talking about you.
My Fiance said she posted the other day (day after her birthday) that she needs to “reevaluate” her facebook friends because some of them didn’t write her a happy birthday post……
She also said today (her daughters first birthday) that she was soooo upset when she found out she was having a girl but that she has now grown on her. WHAT. IS. WRONG. WITH. HER.
Yep…….. deleted from our lives. Amazing how some 26 year old wife and mother can act.
Post # 19
ChrissyMary9515: Sometimes it’s hard to make the leap to cutting ties, even when you know it’s probably for the best. Sorry you’re having to deal with this. Good luck! 🙂