(Closed) Sending invites to those who don't want to come (LONG, sorry)

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 16
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Hi.  At my first wedding,  I invited people because it was “the right thing to do”.  It was verbally, emotionally and overly personally expensive to do that.

Ask your Fiance and yourself if next year, 5 years, 20 years from now it will matter if the couple that is obviously causing you conflicted feelings will be important to you.  It looks like they have already stated that you two and your futre wedding & life together is not important.

 

Post # 17
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3875 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

ChrissyMary9515:  I had my Fiance kind of drop a hint, but the brother kind of figured. It’s not mystery that his wife and I don’t get along, but with her personality (a 33 year old woman who acts like a spoiled 15 year old), it’s really hard to talk to her about anything and she freaks out if I’m even mentioned. He understands and told my Fiance he seriously doubted she would have even come to begin with, so it’s just as well.

Post # 19
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132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

ChrissyMary9515:  Sometimes it’s hard to make the leap to cutting ties, even when you know it’s probably for the best. Sorry you’re having to deal with this. Good luck! 🙂

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