(Closed) Sending out cards with monogram…

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2007

I’m not sure if this is proper etiquette, but I had a friend of mine who sent out her invites with their monogram on it. I didn’t see a problem with that and I also don’t see a problem with you sending out your thank you notes in advance with your monogram, but that’s just my opinion! If you’d rather be safe, then just wait until shortly after the wedding to send them out! You could always write them, then send them out when you get back from your honeymoon if you feel better doing that!

Post # 4
237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Hey, we are date twins! Everything I’ve read says not to use your married monogram until after the wedding. As a guest, I wouldn’t balk. Hope your planning is going well! What do you  have left.

Post # 5
36 posts

The "etiquette ladies" of the world would say that using your combined monogram prior to your wedding is inappropriate.  As an alternative, you could give the senders a call to acknowledge that you received their gifts (yes, this is perfectly ok to do) and then send them formal thank you notes after the wedding.

Another reason to hold off until after the wedding: you’ll be able to thank them for coming and tell them how nice it was to see them there!

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