(Closed) Sending out Thank you cards 3 months after wedding….

posted 9 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
1252 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Just send them – no need to mention that they are 3 months after the wedding 🙂  People will understand that there was a honeymoon and a few holidays over the last 3 months, and it’s always better late than never.

Post # 4
5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

Ours didn’t get sent until just before 3 months too. And for the other weddings we went to this year, that was actually one of the earliest! I wouldn’t worry about it, go ahead, write, and send!

Post # 5
13903 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Even if they are a little later than you planned, at least you sent them.  I think even at 3 months, they will be appreciated and worth the effort.  I don’t think you have to acknowledge how late they are; you should just write heartfelt thanks and move on.

Dear Aunt Sue and Uncle Joe,
Thank you so much for the __.  We were honored that you were able to celebrate our wedding with us, and hope you enjoyed yourself!  Looking forward to seeing you both soon!

Post # 6
2413 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I say send them. The holidays complicate things a bit. We have friends that got married in the middle of November and they haven’t sent any out yet. They thanked us in person as well. I don’t think anyone is insulted by this…it was soon Thanksgiving, and then Christmas/NY, etc. and now they are headed off on their Honeymoon.They’ve had alot going on. I imagine it might take a bit longer as I am going to get photo-printed Thank You cards so I would imagine I need to wait for the photographer to give us our photos, then get them printed, etc and that takes time too. Now, we have also attended at wedding where we NEVER got a Thank You card and that pissed me off…Fiance didn’t even get a groomsman gift…no simple card expressing appreciation or anything and I thought that was rude, too.

Post # 7
13561 posts
Honey Beekeeper

It’s definitely not too late. I think the three-month mark is actually becoming pretty normal. And I don’t think you need to acknowledge the timing. Just write them as you’d have written them one week after the wedding. 🙂

Post # 8
47432 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s never too late to be polite. People understand that the first few weeks after a wedding are a busy time for a new couple.

Post # 9
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

In my family, people never talk about the thank you cards that arrive late but they ALWAYS mention the ones that never came ,… 

Post # 10
699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Write, write, write.

Please DO NOT not write them because you feel they are too late, much better to write them!!

Post # 11
4334 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Just do it! NOW! 🙂

Post # 12
633 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Definitely get started on those! There’s no need to mention the lateness. I’d have DH do the thank yous from his side to speed the process along.

Post # 13
362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

It is never too late to say thank you! They’ll appreciate it. 

Post # 14
1199 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

.agreed with PPs!  Send them, and don’t worry if you think they are ‘late’.  People will only talk crap if they don’t get one at all…

Post # 15
7605 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’m in the “better late than never” camp as well.  No need to mention the lateness, many people wait even longer!

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