(Closed) Sept Brides, RSVP count?

posted 9 years ago in September 2011
Post # 47
566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

One couple just texted yesterday and said “We know we said we’d be there and you just booked a hotel room for us, but we’ve been remodeling and it’s taking up all our time, so put us on standby.”

This is not an airplane flight. There is no standby list. You are either coming or not coming, and if you don’t decide by August 15 there will be no food or seats for you!!

Also, still haven’t heard back from the friend who RSVP’ed with “TBD. I’ll text you.”

I might be less stressed if I “lost” my phone for the next 35 days.

Post # 48
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m finally starting to get some RSVPs in (exciting!) on our website so I’ll join in.

Invited sent: In groups between July 12 and July 20. 7 of FI’s still haven’t made it to their recipients as he is hand delivering to his friends, and 2 he still hasn’t decided if he is actually inviting. Urgh! Seriously!

Invited: 56

RSVP yes: 21

RSVP’d no: 2 (A courtesy invite to my besty and bf who live in London. I already knew she wouldn’t be able to come).

Haven’t replied: 33 (7 of which haven’t yet been invited!)

RSVP date: I forget what I put, I just picked a ramdom date, August 24th I think. Don’t have to have final number to the caterer until a week before.

Post # 49
1263 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

So far we have received 85 yes’s and 15 no’s out of 300 guests invited. Our RSVP date is August 13 so I think we are doing ok for now!

Post # 50
70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We invited 187, have since gotten 6 extra add-ons, and our RSVPs are due by August 25th.

Yes – 38
No – 9

Post # 51
197 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011


Invites sent – July 19

Total Invited ~300

RSVP Yes – 45

RSVP No – 16

RSVP Due Date – Aug. 20

We’re getting about 4 cards back every day so it’s moving along pretty well.

Post # 52
140 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I have an extreme type A personality and my RSVP count is driving me CRAZY!!

The guests have 1 week left to respond and we have only received 45% of the RSVPs. It seems like this is the norm, but it is frustrating!

Post # 53
572 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011


RSVP’s are due tomorrow, we invited 202 people:

Yes – 145

No – 36

No Response – 21

We shall see…..

Post # 54
1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Update: I think rsvp’s are really really stressing me out.

We sent them out May 17

156 people invited

Our deadline was July 31 and at this time we had only heard from exactly 50% of our guest list. So here are the numbers after I contacted all the non responders. I’m still waiting on people and I sent out reminders via private messages on facebook

Attending 80

Not Attending 22

The other 54 who knows!

Now if Fiance would just start contacting his side like he said he would!


Post # 55
1302 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Update… My RSVPs were due 11 days ago. We mailed 88 invitations to 156 people and 15 plus ones.

We received back 59 RSVP cards and 5 timely verbal or email RSVPs.  We finished chasing everyone down yesterday and have a final count of 91.  This is great because I wanted a smaller event and was disappointed when the guest list exploded!  There are a few people that we’ll miss, mostly on my fiancé’s side, but for the most part I am happy with the final list.

It feel great to have the guest list and the seating chart finished 🙂

Post # 56
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Update – My RSVP due date is today, so far I’ve gotten 42 of 82 invites back and a few ‘OMG I forgot to send the RSVP, but I’m coming’ messages for a total of 82 confirmed guests. I’m really hoping for a full mailbox tonight!

Post # 57
2392 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Invites sent -mid-June, I think…

Total Invited – 112

RSVP Yes – 60 (ok, this includes a few assumed yese that are people we know for 100% sure are coming but they flaked on sending the RSVP… if you tell me your flight or lodging info that’s close enough!)

RSVP No – 23

RSVP Due Date – August 1

There are currently 29 outstanding invitations.  About 10 of them are people that we invited a little late and I told them they have extra time to decide (one of them we TOTALLY flaked on and I’m sending his invitation tonight).

I expect we’ll end up having about 80 guests, but at some point I’m going to geek out and figure out what our local/instate/west coast/further reply percentages are.

Post # 58
49 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011

I sent mine out at the end of June.  RSVP due date was August 5th.

230 Invited

147 Accepted

12 Declined

I still have several people that have not mailed the RSVP back.  And this whole thing is irritating me because I put postage on the RSVP envelope, and these people don’t have the decency to send the RSVP back whether they are coming or not. It’s basically money wasted….GRRRR 

Post # 60
62 posts
Worker bee

Total Invited: 119

Total No’s: 54 (basically half the list was from overseas which we weren’t expecting to come anyway)

Total attending: 61

Not replied: 4 (counting them as no as the time has well passed)

We mailed them in May/June and reply date was August 1.

This is the perfect number, I’m so happy for an intimate wedding Laughing

Post # 61
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Invites sent: 28

RSVP’s received:2

Yes: 2

No: 0

And the return date was by the 15th (monday)

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