- soychailatte
- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
Update!
Sent 7/26
RSVP deadline: 8/25
Invited: 209
Desired: 140
Accept: 81
Decline: 45
Outstanding: 83!! WHAAT?! That’s over 47 phone calls to make… Hoping people get it together in the next couple days. I gave them an addressed, stamped envelope. Just send it back!
- 7SEVENJ9
- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
RSVP DEADLINE = TODAY!
I had 14 people outstanding today, so I sent out a mass text message… and now there are only 3 outstanding!!!
137 accepts,
19 declines,
3 outstanding,
and two possible add-ons, just waiting to hear back from my Fiance on whether or not we’re going to allow our cousins to bring their dates based on declines!
- Ms. Caniche
- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
It is finally over… All the RSVP’s are in:
Total invited: 164
Accepted: 124
Declined: 40
I am really happy with the outcome. I had wanted 120-130 people so this works out perfectly 🙂
- jaylii9
- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
FINAL Numbers!
Invited: 188
Yes: 123
Still have some unreturned RSVP cards, but we have been in touch with all the of the outstanding people and know if they are coming or not. Oh well!
I am OK with the number. I would have preferred to have 130-140, but this number is fine. A lot of our guests are Out of Town and several are elderly so that is why we got some many nos. I know on the day of we will have a wonderful time.
- 7SEVENJ9
- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
Yesterday was our RSVP deadline… and we’re missing ONE! Not too shabby! It’s FI’s uncle (who you may have read about in previous posts) who claims he sent it… but hasn’t contacted us to tell us what it said, despite our reaching out to him to find out what the deal is… ugh.
We also got one “text message” rsvp yesterday accepting for a friend of ours and a guest… except we didn’t have a guest allocated for him… and the guest he plans on bringing is his ex-girlfriend (!?!?!?!) and is one of the few people in my life that I can honestly say that I HATE. I do not hate many people. She is horrendous. I don’t like her in my house, let alone present at our wedding. Fiance says he’ll contact friend and let him know that he did not have a guest on the invitation and that he will need to be flying solo the night of the wedding. Because if we’re going to make any exceptions to our “no +1” rule, it would be for my Marine cousin and not for this awful person!!!
- MissMoose091011
- 10 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Sent ours June 13th, the count so far
170 Invited
49: Accepts; We’ll help make your day complete!

- krystal.keel
- 10 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
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