(Closed) Serious lack of Bridesmaids!!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2023

I don’t think it’s stupid to have uneven bridal parties.

I do, however, am not sure that it is in the best of taste to ask people to step in, just to fill an empty space. It just doesn’t seem very… sincere.

I chose my bridal party based on who I loved and cared for, and who has been there for me throughout it all. My Fiance did the same. We have different numbers. I don’t think it’s stupid.

Chosing people for your bridal party should be about honouring people you love, not making up numbers. 🙂

So go with your two ladies, and rock it. Honour them and show them off as people you love and care for. Make it about the relationship you have with those two special women.

Post # 4
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@girlymetalchick:  you have plenty of time, you don’t have to ask anyone until you’re ready to purchase bridesmaids dresses – about 6 months before your wedding!  I would not ask someone I had never met before personally – it’s kind of weird, what if she turns out to be a total weird psycho?  I think it’s fine to have uneven bridal parties, bridesmaids are not props to make your numbers even, they’re supposed to be your nearest and dearest.

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