(Closed) Serious RSVP head explosion

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Don’t stress too much about this!  Trust me, other things are much more important to worry about.  Only 11 out of 63 responding isn’t THAT bad.  You definitely had the majority get back to you so try to be appreciative of that.  I wouldn’t say count on them not coming, just incase they do show up on the day of without letting you know. BUT if it’s important enough to you that you need the exact count for your wedding then I would NOT include them in my count….if they end up telling you they’d like to come tell them the RSVP date has passed and there’s not space anymore!  You’ll visit with them after the wedding 🙂

Post # 3
Member
12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Don’t stress too much about this!  Trust me, other things are much more important to worry about.  Only 11 out of 63 responding isn’t THAT bad.  You definitely had the majority get back to you so try to be appreciative of that.  I wouldn’t say count on them not coming, just incase they do show up on the day of without letting you know. BUT if it’s important enough to you that you need the exact count for your wedding then I would NOT include them in my count….if they end up telling you they’d like to come tell them the RSVP date has passed and there’s not space anymore!  You’ll visit with them after the wedding 🙂

Post # 4
Member
3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would try calling them one more time and tell them that you need to order food now and the date passed a while ago. If they want to come, they need to tell you know. If they aren’t sure, then they will have to be okay with going without a dinner! 

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