(Closed) serious wedding envy

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1365 posts
Bumble bee

Honey, it is just a ring. Don’t feel bad for wanting a new one. It will have sentiment because it will still represent your marriage to the man you love. I say get the set!

Also, if you still feel bad about the wedding envy, maybe you could also start thinking/planning/saving up for a big voew renewal for your 10th anniversary?

Post # 4
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133 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Get the ring. The sentimental value is in your husband loving you and wanting to make you happy. Could you keep the old rings to pass down someday as well, even if you don’t wear them everyday?

I love the idea of a 10-year anniversary party and vow renewal. And who knows, maybe your friends are a little envious of you for finding love and marrying your husband so early.

Post # 5
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I love the idea of a 10 year anniversary renewal. It sounds like your hudband is very understanding, I would think he would be on board.

I love how you said you didn’t care about the wedding, you just wanted to be married. You’re a girl with her priorities straight!

Post # 6
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184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@loopy_lou: just a thought would you and hubby ever consider a vow renewal? maybe for your 10 year aniversary . that way you could have the vintae theme that you love new photos that you would feel better about and get the ring blessed that you will wear forever. 

dont feel bad about the way you feel. we all look at other peoples weddings and have a tiny ounce of regret in one way or another 

i got married for the first time in the very early 1990’s 

i would never change that day as it was the way it had to be

now i am in the position to plan it all over again all be it on a tiny budget it will be different and i will still have regrets but it will be our special day and i am just glad i have finally found the man of my dreams my best friend and my soul mate

xx

loly

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I get you πŸ™ I feel SO bad everytime I look at weddings we cannot afford or evne worse…. compare our wedding to how my friend’s weddings were…. I think it’s a coping mechanism. πŸ˜› 

 I agree about the ring and vowel renewal. It sounds like a great idea! 

 I also agree that you shouldn’t be jealous of your friends… there’s a big chance they’re jealous of YOU for finding your love so early on. πŸ™‚ That’s such a blessing not many people can say they had that. 

Post # 9
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2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@loopy_lou: Glad you found one that you love, and that it worked out! Your hubby sounds awesome. πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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1525 posts
Bumble bee

Yay!!! I’m glad you guys got the ring you wanted!!!

I would suggest doing a nice photoshoot or something or a vow renewal…that way you have some nice pictures to remember your relationship now. Do something really special and get dressed up and get pictures done πŸ™‚ And highlight your ring in some of course! πŸ˜‰

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I was going to say the same as the other posters–

Vow renewal and new rings

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

i vote vow renewal and new rings!

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