(Closed) Seriously?!?!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Wow.  Are your friends with her?  “In recent contact” doesn’t sound super friendly, like it would lead to an assumption that she would even be invited.  What is the nature of your relationship with her now?

Post # 5
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388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Based on what you’ve said, having her around sounds like more trouble than it’s worth.  Maybe it’s better to move on without her.

Post # 6
Member
217 posts
Helper bee

EEK! It sounds like an uncomfortable situation. I would try and stay away from her at this point in time. Especially if your Fiance doesn’t feel good about your relationship with her. It doesn’t sound like you would be crushed by losing contact with her. I personally wouldn’t tell her anything about the wedding. Maybe she’ll get the hint?

Post # 8
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4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

haha am i terrible person if i tell you to delete her and pretend like she doesn’t exist? lol. then you wouldn’t have to go through the trouble of telling her she can’t come 😛

Post # 10
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606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Honestly, she sounds like she is butting in where she doesn’t belong. “She lost her chance last time?” You mean when HER brother acted like a fool? Yeah, sorry but this isn’t a game show where you get second chances at things like that (especially when she assumes that she is automatically in somebody’s wedding party!). Yes, I’d delete her off your myspace and just ignore her. That’s so… arrogant of her. Good Luck with that!

-Bella

Post # 11
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Drop her – cut all ties and don’t worry – you can’t be responsible for her saddness!

I probably wouldn’t delete/block her immediately but I would stop responding to her and delete/block her in a few months!

Post # 13
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4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i think you need to cut ties with her. it’s hard, especially since you don’t want to make her sad, but you’re not responsible for her happiness!

Post # 14
Member
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

she sounds kinda negative AND if there is no friendship between the 2 of you, other than the connection of her brother and your EX then really – i feel there is no need to continue any contact whatsoever

just tell her, small FAMILY only wedding guest list and so sorry but thats life so suck it up

really – how rude.. and weird

 

Post # 16
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

this is seriously crzy it sounds to me like she never got over you and her brother and talks about him all the time maybe so you guys to get back togather weirdo. I would tell her NO and how you feel.

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