(Closed) Seriously?!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@MaiFuture: Date twin, yay!

Ummm, I don’t get it. I’m sorry your FI’s feelings are hurt…

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Wow. Some people forget to think outside themselves once in a while. With the ring thing, I would be honored. He obviously loved your ring and wants to give his Girlfriend something equally as beautiful! (at the same time, I would be a littel bugged because it would be MY ring. So I do understand that feeling as well.)

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@MaiFuture: No worries, dear! I edited too so as not to create drama 🙂 Glad it’s back with details.

My FI’s sister is the same way…whenever we do something good for us, she responds with a negative. Instead of being happy for you, the friend shifts focus on himself and how he’s affected negatively by your choices. How were you to supposed to know that he chose that wedding date when there’s no ring, no Fiance, and no “dibs” for the date with their Save-The-Date Cards already?!

You can’t make everyone happy, and as long as your intent isn’t to hurt others, just do what’s best for yourself. Hope your Fiance can feel better about the situation 🙂

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@MaiFuture: At least he’s decided to actually change the date and not plan it on your date anyway.

I’m sorry that this friend isn’t being considerate. To be on the safe side I wouldn’t tell him too many of your wedding plans.

I do find it a little funny though, normally it’s a girl who is stealing the ideas/date etc. Haha.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@MaiFuture: Well, you should take it as a compliment! It’s irritating, but flattering. It sounds like the friend really admires your Fiance and you, even if he isn’t aware of his copying and doesn’t give you proper credit 🙂

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