(Closed) Seriously bummed tonight

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
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I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s had to tell if he is jerk or the stress is making him act like a jerk. Either way, don’t make any decisions right now. You aren’t in a good place. You need to take care of yourself. Go to your Mom’s. Maybe do something for yourself this weekend–shop, icecream or mani/ped. 

Try writing him a letter. Sometimes it can be overwhelming to hear it all. So wite him a letter that tells him how you feel–overwhelmed by the details, scared of losing your Mom, etc. Then tell him what he can do to help you–hold you and listen for 10 mins a day while you just vent, do the dishes, pickup the kids, take you to dinner, whatever it is. But make it concrete. Don’t say be empathtic. What does that mean?

Once you are out of the Mom illness tunnel, only then can you really take a look and see if the relationship is still working for you. 

Good Luck and ((hugs))

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