(Closed) Seriously Creeped out…have a stalker!!

posted 5 years ago in Legal
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Wowww. I really hope he doesn’t try and do anything when no one is around and heeds the advice of corporate.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@TexasSpringBride:  Well I think you’re doing everything you can. Your bosses and coworkers know. The police knows. I’d write down the times he shows up, and the duration (as you did in this post) so you have a record if/when it escalates.

I would also avoid being out after dark by yourself, if you can help it. I would get someone to walk you to your car.

It sounds like this guy is just being an asshole and scaring you a bit trying to get his point across vs. personally interested in you, which is probably a good thing.

I hope this gets resolved soon… I would be freaked out as well!

If he shows up to your house then this turns into a different kettle of fish. Try to make sure he isn’t following you when you go home.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@TexasSpringBride:  When he is following you and you park, like at the coffee shop, does he talk to you or just watch you?  not that it makes much difference I guess, but if he’s just watching you that’s even creepier.

 

I’m glad you have your military training and are a tough woman, because if it came down to it then you could defend yourself.  I would be super freaked out if it were me.  I’m glad you’ve called the police and your bosses.  It sounds like you’re doing all the right things. 

 

I hope your bosses are able to resolve the matter and he can just go away and leave you be

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@TexasSpringBride:  This is so scary!  I was stalked once for about two years by an ex and it was an awful feeling.  But this is much worse since your stalker’s a client.  I’m worried for you.  Please stay safe!  What a freakin’ creep.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Document everything, and make it obvious that you’re doing so.  Take pictures of his car, when he’s blocking your way, etc.  Take the normal safety precautions – don’t go out to your car alone after dark, etc.  Hopefully, when he sees you recording everything, he’ll back off.  If not, you’ll have plenty of evidence to document his behavior.

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@TexasSpringBride:  I wonder, based on all this guy has done, if you could get a restraining order against him.  Have you checked into that?  He needs to go to jail for this.  Stalking is illegal!!

And who gives a flip if he’s a client or not, he’s a psycho!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@TexasSpringBride:  Do you have a permit to carry or is your gun in your home?  I would SOOOO be carrying a concealed weapon in your situation.  Sorry you’re going through this, I HATE being creeped out.  Talk about unnecessary stress!

Post # 15
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Have you told the police about the blocking in the street and the following to the coffeeshop and such?  Because even if he has a viable reason to be on company property, those instances are no longer at work.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@TexasSpringBride:  I just wanted to share that I am in Texas and had a stalker. The police were no help. None. Even though we have stalking laws. But they don’t take any complaint seriously, even if you keep track and have witnesses.

 

I had a stalker at one apt and I moved in a matter of a week. Not a month later, someone was breaking into my apt (likely popping the locks) and unlocking them, so when I got home and would unlock my door, it would be locked. They obviously knew my work schedule and my comings and goings because I could be gone 10 min or 10 hours and it would happen. I am a bit of a psychic (don’t worry….I don’t charge lol) and what I consider my guides, told me to turn off my location gps on my phone. As soon as I did it was about a month before this person returned and then it was because I was out of town.

I ended up moving overnight and to a place no one knew me. I completely turned my life upside down. I gave my landlord my parent’s address and phone if they needed anything.

 

I can only say that I understand how freakin’ annoying it is to have someone on your ass all the time. It got to the point I wouldn’t go outside when typically, like you, I would go after anyone. I am so sorry this is happening. I didn’t get to meet my stalker. I do know that even if he is a client, he doesn’t have a right to harrass anyone. Texas law states you must formally ask them to leave you alone before they can even do anything. I’m not saying you are lucky, but you know who he is, so if you felt that was right, you could tell him, “I feel harrassed, please go directly to my supervisor from this point forward.”

I wish you luck.

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