(Closed) Seriously, dude? D:

posted 8 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 32
801 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

that’s just wrong. I mean, seriously?!?!?!? woah. 

Post # 33
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

That guy was a big douche!  I’ve gotten comments like that myself.  My favorite was two guys talking about me, IN FRONT OF ME, talking about how they prefer bigger girls cuz they take care of themselves more cuz they have to if they are gonna catch a man’s attention.  WTF?!?!  Meanwhile, I wouldn’t WANT attention from two losers like that.  Some people just don’t know when to STFU!

Post # 34
1736 posts
Bumble bee

Ugh, some men have their heads so far up their own ass that it’s hopeless to expect much from them.

I was talking to one of my FI’s best friends while we were out one night and we were chatting about how he was looking to find a special girl, yada yada. I asked him what his type was and he told me, “Someone with your personality but with a better body.” I sat there for a minute and then said, “Are you calling me fat?” and he goes, “No, I’m saying you’re just average.”

He’s lucky my drink (or my fist) didn’t end up in his face! Sigh. Que sera sera. I just chalk it up to alcohol and Y chromosomes.

Post # 35
8880 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

That is SO rude. I’d have told him off.

Post # 37
1370 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Some people are missing that filter between brain and mouth. What an ass. I don’t know what I would have said in the moment, but it sounds like you handled it more gracefully than I would have!

Post # 38
3774 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

Oh my!  That was rude.

Post # 39
28 posts
  • Wedding: October 2012

That is just rude!  What a total asshat. You have a lot of class to not have knocked his block off.    What an idiot.

Post # 40
789 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

OK, everyone has great responses is retrospect. Here’s mine:

Sad face on you, patting his hand sympathetically, “Oh my! That was a mean thing to say! But, honey, I’ve heard impotence makes a man cranky. Hope it gets better for you soon”

Post # 41
93 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

People are jerks. It’s not just guys either. My grandmothers friend once looked me up and down (I was in a nice sundress and I’m 6ft tall and a size 20) She proceeded to tell me as she looked me up and down “Such  shame…you have such a pretty face.!”  My grandmother practically threw her out of the house.   People are out of control. I mean, that would be like going up to a chick with  rocking body and so-so face and being like “Gee…your body is amazing- too bad your face is f***ed” lol 

Post # 42
3571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Sounds like he was trying to pull that stupid pickup artist crap on you. It’s called “negging” where a guy will give you a an insulting compliment. The idea is to make a girl self conscious and try harder to be “good enough” for him. I’ve only seen a few people do this in real life, but they’re always tools.

Don’t worry about it doll. 

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