(Closed) Seriously, dude?! I don’t want that image in my head… Just a vent.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@gocubbies: Definitely a time where he shoulda bluffed.  How old is he?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@gocubbies: I remember one afternoon when J told me he had a dream about some girl who he used to be friends with and me.  I cannot say I was thrilled by it.

I also recall a time when he told an old friend that he had a dream about her.  I think that one bothered me the most because he tells me that he rarely has dreams.  Especially about people.

But like you, I want to be the cool girlfriend and not make a big deal about dreams.  It’s hard though.  You’ll forget about it soon enough.  =)

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Wow.  We all realize we can’t control our dreams, but why would he tell you that?  Unless he was obviously teasing you (and it doesn’t sound like he was), there is such a thing as oversharing.   Sometimes, you need to just keep it to yourself!

Ugh.  Sorry you had to hear that from it.  It was way insensitive of him.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Oh no !! Im so sorry πŸ™ Maybe he was just trying to change the subject or make you upset in a way that would take your mind off the ” something sparkly” because he may actually be planning to do it soon and just wants it to be a HUGE surprise!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m sorry, I had to laugh–this whole situation is a perfect example of men vs. women. Guys tend to not have the same filter as we do, which would explain why he told you–but to be fair, you DID prod him to tell you about the dream. He should have bluffed, but you did ask. If it were me, I’d just laugh it off and give him crap about it.

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Boys are dumb.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It’s okay to have dreams, but I think he should respect you enjoy to NOT tell you about it!  There are just some things that are not meant to be shared with our SO.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

My mom always told me… don’t ask questions that you’re not prepared to hear the answer to.  Case in point : )

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@gocubbies: Oh, it’s okay.  Sometimes he’s too honest with me, but I guess it’s better sometimes that he shares it with me.  But I definitely felt my tummy go all gooeyish when he told me.  I don’t ask these days.  I figure if there’s something he wants to share, he’ll share.  

It really is funny to get all weird hearing about dreams that are beyond our control.  I’m laughing about it as I type this.

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@gocubbies: Dude you should be like, I had another dream…”It was me, four underwear models in the carribean, forget about what I said about sparkly.”

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