(Closed) Seriously thonlimg of breaking it off…

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
412 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry OP. I don’t disagree with you. I mean I wouldn’t trust him ever. I have trouble understanding loving someone you can’t trust, but i’m lucky in a lot of ways that i’ve not been in that situation. I have always had a ‘never get back together policy’ when I dated. Which many see as harsh. But I trust and respect past me to believe that when we broke up I was right to do so. You’ve invested a lot of time in this relationship but putting more time in can not make your investment in him ‘return’ 

Post # 5
2783 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

What you do is you leave this loser, and find yourself a real man who treats you with respect.

Post # 6
269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I’m going to tell you the same thing I just told my Maid/Matron of Honor……..there are certain times in life when you just have to stand up for yourself and realize you’re wasting your life on this person who doesn’t give two shits about you and your happiness.  You deserve better. 


@FutureMrsLarson:  what you said

Post # 7
221 posts
Helper bee

I agree with PPs. get out now. 

Post # 8
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@feelinghopelessguys:  You KNOW that he is lying to you. Stop putting yourself through this. He is trying to play you for a fool–how many times do you need to see evidence of him cheating before you believe it? Your relationship started out based on a lie and he has been lying ever since.

Of course he wouldn’t show you his phone because it has all sorts of shady conversations on it –you know that. And you know that him and the girl he sent body pics to had sex, stop trying to convince yourself what you know deep down to be true. Stop expecting him to be honest because he has proven that he is a liar. You deserve sooo much better!

Post # 9
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@feelinghopelessguys:  To be honest, I stopped reading after the man boobs/underwear stuff because it got really confusing (paragraphs, periods, and commas darling!!), but I think I’d heard enough. 

If your best friend who you love and respect came to you, told you all of this, and asked you what she should do…what would your advice to her be?

This guy has shown you exactly who he is and it’s time you believed him.

Post # 11
456 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

leave his lying cheating arse…. pack up and throw all of his shit on the kerb and lock him out of the house. and go to the doctors and get a STI checkup

Post # 12
2122 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - DD born 2015 DS born 2017

@feelinghopelessguys:   No more talks. Get rid of this douchebag loser NOW. And never contact him ever again. I’m sorry but he doesn’t love you, and you deseve a man who does and treats you well.

Post # 13
517 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

LEAVE immediately. Tell him GOODBYE! You will find better than him in due time.

Post # 14
11271 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@feelinghopelessguys:  yeah, he is so not worth any time or effort.  he does not love you because if he did, he would never, ever disrepect you like that.  close the door and never look back.

Post # 15
4934 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh hell no.




Emotions aside, please put this filled up diaper of a human being in the garbage where he belongs because he is stinking up your life. Delete, block, ignore, out out out like yesterday, What are you even doing? Come on. 


Post # 16
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

He’s lied to you from day ONE.  Nothing’s changed.  Stop sleeping with him, block his number and move.  Go meet some new people and get on with your life!!  

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