Post # 17
@megz06: I just laughed so hard I actually cried. Can you even IMAGINE living with that kind of verbal spew your whole life? I can’t imagine actually saying that so someone!
PS- I had gender disappointment when I found out we were having a girl. I’m glad I got over that in private instead of AT THE BIRTH!
Post # 18
Yeah. The Limp Bitkit song was perfect for this situation, lol.
That’s what I fear is going to happen is I will slip up and accidentally say he or she. I don’t even want to tell immediate family right away because with Christmas being right around the corner, I don’t want my in laws badgering me about giving a name, so I wanted to wait until I don’t have 3 women ganging up on me, lol.
Post # 19
Wow that is the most bizarre comment ever. Like,she seriously had to dig to find some way to insult you both.
Some people are miserable, and just want to make sure everyone else is as well. What a cow.
Post # 20
Honestly, her comment to me didn’t even make sense at first. I was just like you have to be kidding me…we know it isn’t going to take 4 months to plan on having a girl or boy. We have everything “planned.” We just now need to take all our planned things and find a color or pattern we like.
Absolutely agree with you. I think she just seriously stuck her foot in her mouth unless she is really that ridiculous.
Post # 21
@megz06: How rude! I hate people who think their entitled to say whatever they want!
Post # 22
Ughhhhh. This is the kind of thing that makes me wonder if I want children. Well, not totally, but you get the idea. I saw how our wedding ended up open to so much criticism and unsolicited “advice”, so I just can’t imagine having to deal with all that when I become pregnant. I probably would have been pretty rude and told her to stuff it.
Post # 23
I think this would have been the ideal time for a “well, bless your heart!”
I’m not from the south but think this expression is just awesome.