(Closed) Seriously?…..Vent…kinda long

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

your fi has cancer? if that happened and we were living apart, i would quit my job to be with him. definitely move closer.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Move closer no question!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It’s not personal, it’s business.

It’s a huge personal choice for YOU but for your supervisor, it’s nothing but business. I can see how he might be frustrated by losing a valued worker but can he actually hold you back?

One phrase you wrote sticks out to me…he thinks you’re “running away from something”…? Does he take your friendship a bit more seriously than he should? If that’s the case, that’s another point to add to your “pro” list…getting away from a supervisor with inappropriate feelings.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

Oh I hope you can do it!  Sounds like a great fix!  I agree that a paycut is worth it for all the pros you listed 😛

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Move! i would def take a paycut if it meant more time with hubby, especially in his condition. – Thinking about you and your family –

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

@TLH21: I’m sorry to hear about your Fiance. I just said a prayer for him. You are very strong. I hope you get your transfer.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Move closer to your man.  Taking a tiny bit of a salary cut would be worth it.  At least you would keep a job, since many are still trying to find one.

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper

@TLH21: I was originally going to say tell youre supervisor to “suck it” but then decided that probably wouldn’t go over well.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

sounds like you already know what to do – why should your supervisor have any bearing on that? It almost sounds creepy, like he has a crush on you. Whatever his fixation is, it can’t be healthy, since he obv. doesn’t even factor in to this decision for you, yet you seem to be very important to him. And if his management skills suck “monkey balls” anyway, it should be obvious!

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You gotta do whats best for you and your partner.. I wouldnt even think twice about this.

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