Post # 1
By having a Bachelor/bachelorette party with strippers. Why is this so important/necessay for a bachelor/bachelorette party. I mean ok you are gonna have nude/near naked ppl gyrating a few nights before you get married. What is this point/hstory for this to even happen.
I know I am having a mini rant right now…and OF COURSE i don’t mean to offend any Bee if she is having one or allowing Fiance to have one. But I just don’t understand the point. What are you trying to get from this ‘Well..um let me get a peek @ some other woman’s/man’s piece before I have to onlysee my wife/husband’s own for my entire life ‘.
Please Bees answer this if you can and I am being sincere in asking: What is the point of a stripper for someone who is goin to get married? (Entertainment doesn’t cut it for me)
Again no offense to any Bee or Bee’s Fiance who is having a stripper.
Post # 3
@Mz Izzie: LOL. I think this thread is going to be very interesting!
I’m not for or against it. I know SO and I are going to something low key. No strippers or anything like that it’s just not us.
Post # 4
i feel you. I don’t want to have a stripper, nor let Fiance have stripper. I think the reason though is so that the men “don’t feel tied down”
and articles like this http://www.cosmopolitan.com/celebrity/exclusive/bachelor-party-stripper-confessions-0305 make me not want to have a bachelor/bacherlorette parties at all.
I trust HIM, i do not trust his friends.
Post # 5
my cousin is a stripper and keeps telling Fiance she’ll hook him up and complaining that we are not going clubbing for the b-paty. 1st off she is underaged and so is my entire bridal party! Even one of them is a minor so its not an option. 2nd. I don’t drink and neither does my Maid/Matron of Honor. 3rd. I don’t want to do that. I want to stay home and watch harry potter and magic mike while eating yummy food. thats whats fun to me! its my b-party so she needs to quit crying about it.
Fi is having a video game party for his and completly content. I know he kinda wants a stripper but to me that is so wrong and I hate it.
Post # 6
Fiance actually wants me to go see male strippers lol but I have no desire to. He will probably go to some type of strip club. I don’t really get it, but it doesn’t really bother me
I will most likely go wine tasting or similar with my Maid/Matron of Honor and thats about it
Post # 7
We’re staying at our inn the night before the rehearsal dinner. The gals will have a spa day and the guys will go hiking. We’ll all meetup later for dinner and drinks.
I am against strippers and the sexual exploitation of men and women. I work with homeless youth who are far too often sexually exploited and trafficked in this manner. These young people grow up and become adults who are exploited and trafficked. It’s not a good thing to support!
Post # 8
Hell to the no, that’s disrespectful, disgusting and just plain wrong.
Post # 9
I think I would rather have my ladies at a day spa and a night of dancing after…
My girl friends took me to a strip party for my birthday last year..I lasted one dance and called my SO to come and get me. I wanted to hit the stripper for rubbing up all over me LOL Not interested at all (They do it to get their jollies off I swear)
Post # 10
And my SO has said he wouldn’t get a stripper because he doesn’t see the point 🙂
Post # 11
@FutureMrs.browneyes: Lol…@ I think this thread is going to be very interesting!
That’s why I continue to insist No offense to anyone. Love your comment about low key celebration (HAVE FUN!!!)
Post # 12
Fiance doesn’t want to see strippers, and I have zero desire to see any either.
So neither of us. In fact, I plan on having a party with my friends and mom (playing board games, eating popcorn, etc) and then having Fiance and the guys come over and join later in the evening after they’ve had a few beers.
Post # 13
I think we’re too old for strippers and wild parties, personally. I suspect we both end up doing something low-key.
Post # 14
Fiance will have strippers, and crazy things will happen. I’m not worried, at all. I told him “do not have sex with another woman, and come home with all your teeth.” they are going to New Orleans, and his friends party hard. The way I see it, he is an adult, and this wedding is something to celebrate- I don’t mind if he has fun and goes crazy. In fact, I encourage it. We are going to spend of our lives together, so, in the grand scheme, His bachelor weekend is insignificant.
Post # 15
My Fiance will be going to a strip club for a part of his and it doesn’t bother me at all, it’s something he’s done in the past. I know that he’s coming home to me at night and that’s what’s important. I definitely won’t be having a male stripper, not because I think it’s wrong, but because male strippers weird me out, definitely a little too out there for me.
Post # 16
Also, he is 27 years old- I don’t “let him” do anything. I don’t control his actions. He is an adult and can make his own choices, just as I make my own. We don’t “ask” permission, either.