(Closed) Severely need Advice…call off my wedding??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 77
4014 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Just wanted to pop in and give you hugs! I know you will make it through this, you seem like a strong-willed beautiful woman!

I live in San Marcos, when your feeling up to it or ever want to chat please PM me, I would love to grab a coffee or a drink with you 🙂


Post # 78
374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Postpone for sure! You said you love him so I don’t see why you would want to walk away so fast and not try to work through these feelings you are experiencing.

Post # 79
1866 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I was engaged before, 2 1/2 years ago. The engagement lasted just over a month because I called it off. It was something in my gut telling me HE’S NOT THE ONE. I wasn’t excited to see him anymore, I wasn’t happy when I was with him, I started to get easily annoyed by everything he did… I didn’t get excited when people asked about the wedding. I honestly felt miserable and couldn’t see myself being happy spending the rest of my life with him. I remember thinking to myself that this should be one of the happiest times in my life right now and instead, it was one of the worst. I wasn’t happy and I realized I didn’t want to spend forever with him. I didn’t hesitate to call it off when I made up my mind and it felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders when I did it. It was the best decision I ever made. Six months after that I met my current bf, soon to be fiancé (we’re looking at rings) and let me tell you, I couldn’t be happier. It’s a completely different feeling than before and I know, 110%, that this man is my soul mate. My heart, gut, and mind are ALL telling me that he is the one, when before, my heart, gut, and mind were all telling me that he wasn’t. 

Things will get easier with time. You called it off for a reason. Cold feet is one thing, but knowing deep down that this person isn’t for you is a completely different feeling. I think if one has not been in that position, they are not going to know what that feels like. I wish you the best and know that somewhere out there is a guy that is going to make you truly happy to spend the rest of your life with him.


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