(Closed) Sex Before the Wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How long do go without sex before the wedding
    Doesn't matter : (38 votes)
    66 %
    At least 2 days : (2 votes)
    3 %
    At least a week : (6 votes)
    10 %
    At least 2 weeks : (2 votes)
    3 %
    At least a month : (3 votes)
    5 %
    Don't have sex before marriage! : (7 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4755 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    we were on the usual schedual.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1082 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I don’t think it really matters?

    Our sexually frequency didn’t change before/after the wedding.

    Post # 5
    Member
    98 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    He’s not too happy about it, but we decided that by waiting a month it will make our wedding night more special. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    2107 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    We were planning on being romantic and going a few weeks without sex before the wedding, but my last set of birth control pills ran out a couple of weeks before the wedding,  and I just happened to be ovulating the week before the wedding.  In the end, it didn’t take away anything from the wedding night or the honeymoon, and well, clearly it was a good decision, since we’re expecting in January!

    Post # 7
    Member
    4689 posts
    Honey bee

    I don’t plan on waiting, unless it just happens that way. I don’t think anything could possibly make the first sex as husband and wife more special than it already is. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    3627 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We went about 2 weeks, and I’m sooo glad we did! The wait was definitely worth it.

    Post # 9
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    13101 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I really don’t get the point of taking a “sex break” before the wedding.  DH and I didn’t even stay together the night before the wedding but we still snuck off for a little fun before going to our separate rooms for the night.

    And sex on our wedding night was still incredibly special (and very good!).

    Post # 10
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    1526 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We stayed together/had sex the night before our wedding.  Wedding night sex was still special.  I don’t really understand how waiting a certain period of time before the wedding night would make any difference.

    Post # 11
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    2832 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    We will probably not do it the night before; I don’t want to sleep together or see him that morning.

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