Post # 1
AF just arrived and it got me wondering about those that have sex during their period…
Hubby jokes that when AF arrives, I have an ‘out of order’ sign on my vagina. I’m feeling gross, bloated, sore, crampy…. all I want is to curl up with a heat pack, a tea and some chocolate.
All this certainly doesn’t make me feel amorous. Not to mention the mess that would be involved having sex with a heavy flow. I never feel ‘up to it’ again until AF is completely 100% gone – no spotting, nothing.
But on the internet I hear people write all the time that they have sex on their period. So for those of you that do, how do you do it?!
Post # 2
We make sure we have a towel so we don’t mess up any bedding or furniture.
Post # 3
In general, I prefer not to, just because of the mess and feeling gross. But, if the occasion arises, the shower is always a good way to go, or laying down the ever faithful sex towel.
Post # 5
- Wedding: February 2015 - Mount Hermon
only during the end, when it’s light. Fiance doesn’t mind at all, in fact I was more opposed to it than him at first. He tells me that he’d be fine with sex during a heavy flow, but I’m not there yet.
We put a towel down and have sex like normal. And, actually, it makes my period a day to a day and half shorter. For me, I only feel cramps and bloated for the first day or two, so by the time the flow it’s light, I feel fine anyway.
Post # 7
I would recommend having sex during your period in the shower.
My husband and I tried period sex a couple of times.
We were both grossed out by the mess and the smell, so now we just wait until I’m not bleeding anymore.
Post # 9
Hands down the shower. It’s just the easiest cleanup.
Post # 10
Blah. It grosses me out.
Periods are just kind of gross. I feel gross. Definitely not sexy.
And when you pass the little chunkies. Vomit. I can’t imagine that could ever be a turn on lol.
Post # 11
I’ve been with guys who say they don’t mind sex on a period, but I have just never, ever wanted to try it. It has happened once or twice by accident, and just, ugh. It’s really the smell that gets me more than anything. Plus, it’s just hard for me to feel sexy when that is going on! I’ve always envied the people who have no problem just going for it, because it seems like a much more liberated and carefree way to do it! But for me, sex on my period is kind of like pooping while someone is watching – it just feels so wrong, I can’t do it.
Post # 12
we also use a towel on the bed, my SO isnt bothered by it at all. I was the one who was more so apprehensive because I naturally felt ugly and yucky and was like this is completely disgusting when he brought it up. the first time was like our anniversary and I really wanted to be with him and he was beggin (lmao) so i caved and we did it. I was more nervous about his reactions than anything, but once we got past the initial “start” everything was fine. being with him on my period actually made me feel alot less crappy, and in a weird way, beautiful, his desire to be with me helped ease my feeling of being ugly. ABOUT TO BE Too Much Information. we dont jack rabbit or anything with a fast motion while AF is visiting because of the bloating etc, its very sensual and slow and more caressing. We dont do it every single time AF is here, but we dont let that stop us either.
ive never tried it in the shower while on but that sounds like a good idea. idk how i feel about period leaking down my legs tho lol. but nonetheless, i may try that lol.
Post # 13
Never, ever on a heavy day, but on a day with a light flow and we are really in the mood, I have no problem throwing a towel on the bed and then hopping in the shower afterwards. It may get messy, but honestly it has only been really gross once. And we just laughed it off.
Post # 14
Shower, if it happens, but my husband is not into it. and honestly, I feel disgusting on my period so I usually don’t want to have sex then.
Post # 15
Same here. It has nothing to do with the blood, I feel awful, bloated, gassy, need to pee all the time. Just not sexy