Post # 1
I’m having it about once a week at best, but I want it at least every other day. Anyone else like this? I literally just came home from girls night and all my friends are having sex every few months and are cool with that. No judgement, but I feel a little like a freak.
Post # 2
- Wedding: December 2014 - Maui
We’re having it about twice a week. That’s perfectly fine with me.
Post # 3
It’s kind of funny how in life we go through ebbs and flows. I stayed an intercourse virgin until I was married. In my teen years sex was all I wanted did everything but intercourse everyday day darn near and couldn’t wait to have sex. Now that I’m married I could literally go without it for probably 3 months at a time. That being said my husband of course wants it everyday. We probably have sex once month, definitely initiated by him. I blame my low sex drive on my psych meds but who knows. I truly believe our body changes throughout life. By the time I want it every day he probably won’t want it lol. Luckily he works very long hours and it doesn’t take much to convince him to just go to sleep when he tries. Poor hubby.
Post # 4
Right now we’re at twice a week. I want it twice a day.
Post # 5
2-3 days a week. But sometimes 2-3 times just during our weekend date night depending on how frisky we’re feeling. So on average between 2-5 times per week.
Every other day is ideal for me I think. Though twice a week doesn’t bug me most of the time.
I could never go months. Omg. If I leave on family vacation by the time I get back a week later we’re ready to maul each other.
Post # 6
Lol… About once a week. We will go through a 2 week dry span and then have it every day for a couple week.. Then back to once a week. We go through spurts
Post # 7
At least once a week, but then we will have a odd week where will we do it every night. It just depends how tired we are from work.
Post # 8
Ama14: lol yep this x100 (everthing then nothing) us too!!
Post # 9
We would like 1-2 times a week but it’s usually 1-2 times a month. he works way to much, 70-80 hours a week. When we do get started the dogs get curious and we stop- little cockblockers! Hopefully his schedule will become more manageable soon.
Post # 10
We are having it once or twice a MONTH. I would much prefer at least once or twice a week. We don’t live together but we see each other six days a week, I stay over at his place Friday nights. I have a much higher sex drive than him!
Post # 11
once every couple months. Right now it will be like 7 months lol
My Fiance is in the military and i am not one to stray! it’s not a big deal for me.
Post # 12
Right now, 2-3 times a week…oh hell,it’s about 2.
And I’m so not cool with that. I want it every day. At least every other day. there are times at the end of the day when I’m exhausted,he knows he can wake me up though;) lol
Post # 13
Oh my god I am so relieved to hear you guys talk about this. We were soooo frisky when we first started dating, but now that we are engaged and living together… It’s 1-3 times a week and I’ve been wondering if Im a total failure for that lol.
Post # 14
MrsBuesleBee: lol no failure on your part. Life tends to get in the way. We are a 1-3 times a week couple as well. We were 2-5 but he told me that he’s only doing it because I’m initiating and it seems like I want to, meaning he’s not as interested therefore not as active in it. So I cut back on initiating and the sex is hotter but sporadic.. So maybe I’m winning? I dunno but at least twice active week I’m doing it myself 😉 Haha
Post # 15
Maybe like 2 or 3 times a week, sometimes we go a whole week without it, we have a baby and she takes a lot of time, by the time she falls asleep we are already exhausted.