(Closed) sex or no sex

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Probably, but by accident!! Or laziness. Lol. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We didn’t, and we both feel like it was a really good choice.  The physical part of our relationship is just as important to us as the emotional.  That being said, I totally respect everyone else’s beliefs and think that people who wait until marriage are awesome!

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

We’re not. Although I might suggest a hiatus prior to the wedding for a few mo just to make the honeymoon EXTRA special ๐Ÿ™‚ (although if we’re going to a place with a lot to do… maybe not! haha)

Post # 6
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960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

No way! We’ve been together and having sex for almost 4 years now. We live in sin, too ๐Ÿ˜‰

I’ve always been curious, and please tell me if this is out of line, do couples who wait to have sex do other things? Like, do you have oral sex or touch each other’s privates in any way? Hope that’s not offensive to anyone, I’m just genuinely curious.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

no, we didnt wait until our wedding but in hindsight i wish i had waited until i met my now hubby before i had sex in general.  he is only the 2nd man ive had sex with and thinking back it would have been nice to be just him (mainly because i enjoy it him where i didnt with my 1st boyfriend). 

 

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Negative. We took a 13 month hiatus though (he was deployed, haha!). Physical relationship is important to us.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We have been having sex since our second “date” (we are dirty kids, I know, but it is one of the reasons we love each other) … I asked FH if he would want to abstain for a bit before the wedding, and he said H*!! no, so we are going to keep on like we always have. Honestly, I don’t think we would gain anything from abstaining – because “practise makes perfect” LOL! 

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Let me rephrase…it was important for us to be intimately involved before we got married =]

I had to know if he was a crazy nympho in bed and would try to steal my undies and stuff! =P

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

We didnt wait and Im glad.  The physical compatibility is a issue in all marriages and I wouldnt marry someone that I didnt know if I was compatable with. We took a 2 week hiatus before the wedding (not actually planned- busy/family/illness=no getting lucky!) and it did make us anxious for the wedding night/honeymoon.  (In a good way)

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

We have decided to wait!

Our decision was for both religious and personal reasons. We’ve been together for nearly four years now, and we can’t wait for our wedding night!

That’s not to say that we don’t make out. We do. But we sat down and talked out our boundaries, and we’ve stuck to them. We know enough to know that we’re compatible, but not so much that there’s no more surprises.

What makes it even more special is that he is the only guy I’ve ever kissed. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 14
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529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Trinity Lutheran Church & Idlewild Country Club

We’ve been together for 4 years and are waiting for sex. (It’ll be almost 6 years when we get married). I am so excited I can barely stand it :).

That being said, I’m specifically waiting. The future Mr had slept with one person before, but that’s it.

@EAQ – we allow touching, but that’s as far as we go. I am, though, excited about oral sex as well, but we’re also waiting for that.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

this is going to sound awful. horrible. terrible.

we met on new years eve. kissed at midnight. had sex at about noon that day. moved in together a week later.

i’m not good at following rules. :p

originally i was going to make us take a sex-hiatus a month or three before the wedding, but now i’ve changed my tune. i’ll be stressed enough without adding that stress.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

hmmm 50 we chatted on the net for 9 months met once briefly jan of last year, met again on june 1 to errr well have a one night stand… and then it just kept going and going and well it’s still going. i can’t imagine not making love to him.  he completely intoxicates me.  for example the way he smells is just completely erotic to me, talk about pheromones.. omg i LOVE the way he smells i have never even really noticed anyone else before and when i roll over into his spot after he leaves for work oh my god it’s almost dizzying.. sorry but um if we ever get married we’ll be making love all the way through… because well, he’s my best friend and i cannot imagine not being in his arms… unless our convo doesn’t go well today.

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