Post # 1
So this is actually an “almost proposal” story for me. I’m still not engaged. But the other day, FH told me he was going to propose during sex, but then decided not to, just in case I wouldn’t like that. (What he actually asked at the time was something like “I wonder what people would think of getting proposed to during sex?” …I guess that was a feeler… and my answer indicated a “STOP! HALT! WHOA THERE!” lol.)
Now, I know that he’s been planning to propose for months… even that he has the ring… it wouldn’t exactly be just the “heat of the moment”… but, I just thought, gahhh, stereotype of a bad proposal idea, am I wrong?
Soon after, I realized that my parents and others are going to ask me how he proposed… I asked him to please make it something I could actually TELL THEM! lol!
My question is…the sex proposal…what do you think? Horrible idea or…???
Post # 3
Must have been one hell of a session LOL
Post # 4
I would think that I would think it was a homour thing… and would automatically think of the recent ep of Big Bang theory when Leonard Proposed to Penny during sex!!
Personally proposals are something that usualy lead to sex lather that night!
Post # 5
@joya_aspera: If it had happened to me… I would have probably laughed thinking he was joking, killed the mood and ruined the proposal because I’m awkward like that.
Post # 6
I think that would be hot. But I am an old woman after all. ‘ )
Post # 7
I think it is definitely not the way to go, I like a little bit more romance involved than that, I am so glad Fiance didn’t do that 😛
Post # 8
If the sex was really good, I’d say yes. But you can bet I’d be telling grandma that it happened during a romantic candlelit dinner, not in the throws of passion.
Post # 9
You can still tell People he got down on his knees. Just don’t say it was doggie style.
Post # 11
@honeybee1999: haha! just woke my SO laughing out loud at this 🙂
Post # 13
I think my only aversion is that post-sex makes you a bit love drunk. Lots of dopamine, oxytocin, endorphins. I don’t know about your soon-to-be-FI, but I’m a moron after sex. For a good couple minutes, I’m dumb as a stick because I’m all high off of orgasms.
So yeah, if you’re cool with it, it’s still a proposal! I think I would just want my man slightly more clear headed 🙂 And less sticky. And I don’t want his dick inside me while he pops the question.
Post # 14
No! How are you supposed to tell people about that?!
That’s why I was never a fan of the proposal in My Big Fat Greek Wedding, it was in bed after sex but if you aren’t living together and don’t like to proclaim “we share a bed sometimes!!!” to certain people, then even that doesn’t work well.
Post # 15
After you get engaged everyone and their mother wants to hear the proposal story. What would you say?
Post # 16
@joya_aspera: Believe it or not I know someone who did this.
During the heat of the moment she asked if he would marry her and he said “of course babe” well to his surprise she jumped up off of him and ran and got two rings one for him and one for her. He says he thought it was a rhetorical question at the time and really didn’t think she ment it. I have no clue what story they give the family though.