(Closed) Sexual partners/age of sexual activity

posted 7 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2019 - City, State

Seriously?? Based on your other posts, do you have anything better to do…

Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

wutt?

 

 

No seriously, I do not understand what this post is asking.

Can anyone translate, or not worth it?

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2019 - City, State

sarandah :  many of your posts have been closed for starting controversy and disrespecting others. Honestly, What are you even looking for by creating a post like this??? 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2019 - City, State

sarandah :  I’m not being disrespectful at all to you. I’m simply asking you questions and you are jumping down my throat. Good luck in your life. Hopefully you find what you’re looking for. Have a great night!! 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

I’m bored so I’ll bite. 10-20 partners (not sure of exact #). First partner at 17, now almost 30. First experience was very positive and I am still very close friends with the first guy I slept with over a decade later (this is relatively unusual I think). Sex is a very important part of relationships for me. First partner was/is an excellent person but was not the most romantic or sexually satisfying relationship I have had. No kids so I can’t comment on that.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

I’ll bite.

I was 17 when I lost my virginity, i have had probably 50+ partners and my most memorable is my fiancé.  We have some crazy fun times in the bedroom…and everywhere else!  ETA:  my first partner was not very memorable.  I Ghosted him after it happened.

And in my relationship sex is very importantz. Not necessarily quantity, but quality.  

and I’m not having kids….sooo…no comment on that

Post # 12
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Honey bee

You say “people tell me that your first sexual partner in a relationship is the one you remember the most, but from then, it doesn’t really matter, and that sex itself doesn’t matter in a relationship. ” 

Who are these people, and why are they filling your head with this nonsense?

 

 

 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

sarandah :  I can’t sleep so I’ll take the bait.  Just my personal life experience…

1. 18, and NO!  Nice guy, but being two 18 yr olds, it was awkward and clumsy. The sexual partner I remember most is my husband, as I just had sex with him 15 minutes ago; sex with partner #1 was over 15 years ago.

2. No. Mediocre sex with a guy I was (at best) in puppy love with at 18 vs. sex with my husband who I am deeply in love with and very comfortable with…sex with my husband wins. 

3. Less sex than before we had a baby b/c I’m tired and breastfeeding; now it’s more of an emotional drive than a biological one b/c I’m physically less interested in sex right now, but maintaining intimacy is very important to me/us. 

4. I stopped counting ten years ago.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper

sarandah : Giving you benefit of the doubt:

1 at what age did you become sexually active — Declining to answer.

and is your first partner the one you’d remember the most? — No, not at all. The guy with the biggest dick and the guy I did it with 2 hours ago are the ones I remember most.

2. Does sex after your first time/first relationship not become as important — No, this seems absurd to me. I can’t fathom why this would possibly be true.

3. Does sex lessen after having your first child — Yes, because you can no longer just randomly do it in the living room or kitchen. Plus you’re tired. It lessens even more after the second, but then when they hit gradeschool it picks back up again because they’re off at activities sometimes and you’re less tired.

and is sex merely a biological drive? — Sometimes.

4. How many partners have you had? — Declining to answer. A lot though. Like, a LOT a lot. No regrets, it was a blast.

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