(Closed) Sexual partners/age of sexual activity

posted 8 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
2303 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’ll answer one- I don’t think sex has to decline just because you have kids. We have two young children and sure we can’t just decide during breakfast to bone on the kitchen table, but we do make sex a priority in our marriage. I’ve found that sex is a lot better and orgasms much easier to achieve in my 30s than in my childless 20s. 


Oh and I’ll answer one other- I lost my virginity to my high school boyfriend at age 18 (and he to me) and while I remember both him and our relationship fondly, the sex was *really* bad. 

Post # 17
2886 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

I’ll play out boredom. 

Lost my virginity at 15, it was really bad and fast sex, I’m still friends with the guy but we never dated. Hooked up again later in our early twenties and it was decent. 

No idea how many partners I’ve had, didn’t keep count and I was rather wild in my younger days.

havent had kids and not sure I’m will but judging from the convos I’ve had with my friends who have kids they still love to have sex, just sometimes it’s harder to do it with a kiddo.

Post # 19
8919 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

sarandah :  Your friends are weird. And I’m sorry, but this latest batch of questions about having sex with kids in the house sounds less like asking for helpful advice and more …. just pervy.

Post # 20
2303 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We wait until they’re asleep. Sometimes if they’re super distracted upstairs we will sneak down to the downstairs bedroom. My daughter is 7 and my son 3. I expect our days of having sex during their waking hours are numbered. 

Post # 22
906 posts
Busy bee

28 years old (like Adrianna Lima! Lol), one partner my husband so he’s very memorable 

Post # 23
3590 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

1. at what age did you become sexually active and is your first partner the one you’d remember the most?

I was a teen and is was not consensual, so yeah I suppose that is fairly memorable…. As for the first few that were my choice? Barely remember them at all. 

2. Does sex after your first time/first relationship not become as important

Not even remotely. The importance sex has to me has always depended more on the relationship I have with my partner of the time. It means more to me when I’m in a relationship, and obviously with my fiance it is particularly special. 

3. Does sex lessen after having your first child and is sex merely a biological drive?

Can’t comment on this because I don’t have or intend to ever have kids, though I have heard that sex tends to drop off quite a bit when you have young kids in the house for obvious reasons… Too busy and exhausted for it. 

4. How many partners have you had? 

Hahaha fuck if I know 

Post # 24
4315 posts
Honey bee

sarandah :  Time to get some smarter friends. 

Sex DOES matter very much in a relationship. I remember all my partners, but I never was never into one night stands, sex was always in the context of a relationship. 

Post # 25
2757 posts
Sugar bee

You REALLY need to get a job. Preferably full time. Because school isn’t keeping you busy enough.

Post # 27
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2020 - --

1. 18, and no, my first was not most memorable. She is memorable, but only as much as any other one-time-thing. 

2. Of course sex is still important. You’re not a flower getting your petals picked off or any other stupid abstinance metaphor. Your first time only holds the significance you give it. Personally, I’m gay and didn’t accept that until I was like 21. Sex with people I’m actually attracted to, which I didn’t start having until years after I had sex the first time, is certainly more meaningful. 

3. N/A

4. Give or take a couple, 10?

Post # 29
2065 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

20 years old and only one guy. My husband!

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