(Closed) sexual partners?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
720 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

He’s my first, I’m his 5th. Though each of those were only one-off’s for him.

Post # 18
4620 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Me? 14 I think.  I went a bit crazy after splitting with my controlling ex.  Him 40+ ish.

Post # 19
2810 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

DH is the only one! I didn’t exactly plan it to be that way (it’s not a religious choice), it just happened that he was the first one I was ever with, and I’ve been with him ever since!

I believe he’s had 2-3 other partners!

Post # 20
2194 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

9 for me. I’m not totally sure about him…but I think it’s in the 20ish range. He doesn’t like to talk about it Tongue Out


Post # 21
72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

five for me and five for him i think….

Post # 22
792 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

For sex – Seven for me, eight for him – so we are about the same. I’ve ‘fooled around’ with more though, about 12-13 in total, but his ‘other stuff’ number is still eight.

Post # 23
29 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

He’s only my 4th and I met him at 26. I lost my virginity at 16, was kind of over it and didn’t date anyone for the fours years of college because i was and continue to be a workaholic. I also moved each year for about six years for college and graduate school (I study “foreign” literature and art), which put a damper on cultivating romantic relationships. 

He’s a slut, though, so he’s been with at least twice as many women. I don’t want to know specifics because I do get irrationally jealous. All I need to know is he has a clean bill of health.

I’m curious to know: for those of you who live with your partners, did you or your beloved ever live with anyone else? Mine lived with a former girlfriend before, which weirded me out for a long time.

Post # 24
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

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@the_future_mrs:  You are so not a whore. lol 

I plead the fifth but I know that I am much more experienced than my DH.  

Post # 25
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Less than 10 for me, triple digits for SO (yes, his number took some getting used to!), we both got tested before we did much of anything. 

Post # 26
8880 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

2 for me, 6 for him.

Post # 27
519 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We’re both each other’s first.

Post # 28
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

My husband was with one person before me and I was not with anyone before him. I fooled around with guys but I never had sex with them or oral. 

Post # 29
826 posts
Busy bee

We are each other’s first and only everything.

Post # 30
4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Actually, not that many. Excluding the husband, 6. The majority of them were boyfriends, a couple were one night stands.

First time was to a boyfriend, it was awkward.

The other boyfriends were just okay.

One of the one night stands was good, we both were on the same understanding that this was just sex, nothing else and that we most likely will never talk to each other again. We have, but it was mainly just a “Hey, how is everything?” sort of talks. We only had sex that one time. He is married now and really happy.

The other was weird…he tried to cuddle with me (I wanted to leave but he wouldn’t let me go….) and called me numerous times after. I never called him back….. I have no idea what became of him.

Husband has them all beat though :).

Post # 31
1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

he is my 3rd.

1st time with an exboyfriend i was with for 15 months he took my viriginty and that was the end of that. WEIRD !

2nd was with an exboyfriend of 3 years off and on. (EW)

&& now my husband.


he on the other hand.. i think im like his 7th ? Undecided

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